08/05/2026
Today is McKennaâs birthday.
The 16th birthday weâve celebrated without her. She should be turning 23 today.
Birthdays are meant to mark all that is still to come. Instead, this day quietly measures everything that was lost. And yet, somehow, it also reminds me how incredibly blessed we were to have her at all. I would choose those almost eight years with her a thousand times over, even knowing how the story ends.
McKenna had a light about her from the time she was a little girl. She could be silly, sassy, and full of attitude one minute, then thoughtful, compassionate, and wise beyond her years the next. She loved making people laugh, yet she was just as content sitting quietly, taking in the world around her. She carried a confidence and peace within herself that Iâve spent much of my life trying to learn. Those gifts were part of who she was long before cancer entered our lives, and they never left her. Even in her hardest days, that light never dimmed.
People ask how we continue to work in this space of pediatric cancer. The fact is we were blessed with this extraordinary little girl who filled our home with laughter, loved without conditions, and somehow understood that life isnât measured by its length but by the love we leave behind. The only way I know how to honor both her life and her death is to keep trying to live the way she didâwith courage, curiosity, kindness, and joy.
So I try.
I try to embrace the ordinary moments. To be braver when life asks me to be. To keep my heart open, even after it has been broken. Some days I come close. Most days I fall short. But one look at her smile reminds me that tomorrow is another chance to begin again.
Happy Birthday, Macky.
Mommy, Daddy, and Sissy love you and miss you with every piece of our hearts.
Your life taught us what courage looks like. Your death taught us how precious every moment truly is. And your legacy continues to teach us that hope is not something we simply findâit is something we choose to build.
Because of you, the McKenna Claire Foundation exists. Because of you, researchers wake up every day determined to understand this disease, to test one more idea, to take one more shot that could change everything. Your story lives on not only in the hearts of those who love you, but in laboratories, in clinical trials, and in the children who will one day have a future that wasnât possible when you were here.
Today we celebrate the beautiful little girl who forever changed our world.
And tomorrow, because of you, weâll get up and keep building the one you deserved.
Happy 23rd Birthday, sweet girl.
Your light still shines. â¤ď¸