06/19/2026
WHY MEN STAY SILENT ABOUT PROSTATE CANCER
For some men, one of the most difficult parts of a prostate cancer diagnosis is not the diagnosis itself. It’s talking about it.
In this clip, Gregory Jacob Jr. shares why he believes silence and shame continue to surround prostate cancer, particularly when conversations turn to treatment side effects, sexual function, and masculinity.
These concerns are real. Some men experience physical, emotional, and psychological challenges during and after treatment. But as Gregory reminds us, those experiences do not define who you are as a man.
Too often, fear of judgment prevents men from:
• Asking questions or seeking support.
• Sharing their diagnosis with loved ones.
• Having honest conversations with their healthcare team.
No one should have to carry that burden alone.
Whether you are newly diagnosed, undergoing treatment, living with side effects, supporting a loved one, or simply trying to understand your risk, know that help, information, and support are available.
Let’s continue creating a culture where men can talk openly about their health without embarrassment, stigma, or shame.
If you have been putting off a checkup, avoiding a conversation with your doctor, or struggling in silence, take the first step.
Talk with someone you trust.
Schedule your checkup.
Know your numbers.
Know your family history.
And if you have questions about prostate cancer screening, ask your healthcare provider whether a conversation about PSA testing is appropriate for you.
Gregory Jacob Jr.
Prostate Cancer Survivor | Diagnosed at Age 41
Author | Men’s Health Advocate
Learn more about Gregory’s work:
https://triedandapproved.com/
Educational content only. This information is not medical advice and is not a substitute for consultation with a qualified healthcare professional.