08/19/2026
“The greatest gift my kids needed was the gift of my presence.”
Alina Druță has fostered more than 60 teenagers over 13 years in Moldova. When her kids struggled, her instinct was the one most of us have — step in, fix it, give more advice, get them ready for life.
“And I was missing the point most of the time.”
What she learned instead: stop. Be present. Do less for them, and simply be there with them.
She’s honest that it runs against everything pulling at us — the phones, the information, the constant sense that we should be doing more career-wise, more as parents, more at home.
At CAFO2026 we’ll explore this on both levels: what doing less makes possible for our organizations and teams, and what it makes possible in our homes.
“I’m so excited that we can learn this together and just be present with one another. I will see you in September in Atlanta.”
CAFO2026 | Atlanta | Sept. 23–25
Register at CAFO2026.org