Still Missed Pregnancy & Newborn Loss~Parent Support Program

04/02/2022

03/24/2022

Often people with try to change us as their way of helping us through our grief. They will constantly say "I miss the old you." What they don't understand is that the old person went away when our child died. We are now a different person -- a person who carries the pain of child loss deep within the heart.

03/08/2022

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02/18/2022

When a child is born we fill with emotions that we didn't know existed. We had no idea that the bond of love could be that strong. The same thing happens when a child dies. Our hearts and minds change in an instant. We feel the loss of our child so much that it's as though part of our own heart has been split in two. There really are no words to adequately explain this kind of pain.

02/16/2022

— You Don’t Just Lose Someone Once —
You lose them over and over,
sometimes many times a day.
When the loss, momentarily forgotten,
creeps up,
and attacks you from behind.
Fresh waves of grief as the realisation hits home,
they are gone.
Again.

You don’t just lose someone once,
you lose them every time you open your eyes to a new dawn,
and as you awaken,
so does your memory,
so does the jolting bolt of lightning that rips into your heart,
they are gone.
Again.

Losing someone is a journey,
not a one-off.
There is no end to the loss,
there is only a learned skill on how to stay afloat,
when it washes over.

Be kind to those who are sailing this stormy sea,
they have a journey ahead of them,
and a daily shock to the system each time they realise,
they are gone,
Again.

You don’t just lose someone once,
you lose them every day,

for a lifetime.

© Donna Ashworth

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OCTOBER is . Reach out to a and .

01/29/2022

Dear Mom,

I am still here. ❤

I am here for you when desperation creeps in between the spaces of our new realities. I am not gone.

Every tear you shed, I collect it. I gather the rain, and to each drop I give life to the memories you and I have shared.

I step into your dreams when you least expect it, and if you look hard enough, you can find me there.

Say my name. Remember me in the quiet moments. They will sustain you when the world intrudes and tries to drown out the sound of the conversations that you still have with me when you think no one else is listening.

I am still here. ❤

Mom, my soul is quiet now. It no longer yearns for the things my physical body needed to survive this particular battle.

It took everything from me, and I know it took everything from you; you will never realize what that did to my spirit when I passed from that life into this one.

I know that you feel like you are losing your mind some days, but when you hear a heartbeat where none should exist, know that it is mine, keeping time with yours.

I am still here. ❤

I did exist. I left my mark upon this world, and I am at peace now...

Love Your Child

*** Author Unknown

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12/25/2021

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