09/29/2026
Want to learn some ways to communicate effectively with your child? Let's CHAT about it!
Here are 4 Tips for Honest Conversations:
1) TALK ABOUT IT.
Don’t be hesitant to start a dialogue with your child around a subject that’s taboo. It’s important for them to hear your point of view and is a big factor in their decision-making process, even if you don’t think it is.
2) BE REALISTIC AND TRUTHFUL.
Children appreciate when their parents talk about things in a realistic way rather than a distant, hypothetical way. It means they recognize that their children are going to come across drugs and alcohol at some point and also recognize that it is important to know what to do in a situation like that. Tell stories that relate to your own experiences. It helps because they know what they’re talking about in those instances.
3) BE NATURAL.
If you feel awkward, your teen will feel awkward too. This might make it difficult to have a good conversation. Do not put a lot of pressure on yourself. Although these can be big topics, it is important to understand that children likely have similar conversations with their peers whether they do drugs or alcohol or not. Take a deep breath and simply explain how you feel. Find appropriate moments, like on a long car ride.
4) LISTEN TO WHAT YOUR CHILD HAS TO SAY.
The best way to communicate with your child is by having a two-way conversation, not a stern talking to. Even if your teen is not using substances, they may still have an opinion on it. In an effort to keep the conversation from turning into an argument, try asking, “What do you think?” If you are struggling with a child who abuses drugs or alcohol, ask them how much they know about what these substances are doing to their body and how they think drugs and alcohol will affect their future. It is important when having these honest conversations that you do your research, so you have concrete facts to support your opinions. This will make it easier for your child to trust you and listen to your advice.
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