08/17/2026
This is a tough post to make and I really put it off because I hate making it. See Brian and Amanda Pence have been friends of ours for years. When we had our last dinner for me before chemo they were with us at Cobble Hill. We had no idea how crazy both our lives would become after that. Amanda made a brave decision that week after some symptoms to get a Colonoscopy at 39. Her and Brian’s kids and our kids are the same age. In 2022 she would be diagnosed with Colon cancer after her Colonoscopy! Brian has always been a great friend and Amanda and I had numerous conversations over the last 4 years. I prayed for her every night our conversations were ones we shouldn’t have had to have but at the same time it was nice to have her always praying for me. She was a hell of a lot of fun never wanted to shut it down ever🤣 She was a great wife and mother! The photo below was when she talked about her journey at our golf tournament 2 years ago. I hate that at 43 she’s ran out of time. It’s really hard to write this. Her family has been part of our Tell5Friends family from the very start.
She would want you to get your Colonoscopy if you have symptoms no matter the age or if you’re 45.
We will be naming our 2nd scholarship after Amanda and I hope every year when we give it a way we remember how much fun she was to be around and we toast her because I assure you she’s with her Lord and surely in Heaven!💙💙. God Bless Amanda🙏🙏 I’m sick and tired of losing friends way to young to this disease let’s find a cure!!