12/15/2025
Ron Waterman lives in Helena and has been volunteering with Compassion & Choices for 16 years. Here is his story.
âIn 2007, a close friend was diagnosed with advanced pancreatic cancer. She was a single woman with no immediate family, and my late wife Mignon and I supported her. She fought courageously for 16 months, but eventually, the chemo treatments stopped working and she was in extreme pain, ready to die. This was just before the Montana Supreme Court's Baxter decision. Hospice staff worked to control her pain to no avail. She wanted to die at home surrounded by her friends, with her dog at her side, but she did not have the option.
âShe did not want to die, but she did not want to suffer. If she had had the option of medical aid in dying, she would have chosen it.
âAfter the Baxter ruling, former Sen. Dick Barrett introduced legislation to enshrine the decision in Montana law. There was also an attempt to criminalize medical aid in dying. I testified in favor of end-of-life options, as did my late wife, who had served in the legislature for 12 years. We testified against criminalization every session except 2017, and I have continued to do so ever soon.
âIn late November, 2016 my late wife was diagnosed with an aggressive form of stage four pancreatic cancer. After a brief sampling of chemo, my wife concluded that there were only two buckets, life longevity and quality of life. To get one, you needed to forego the other. Her cancer was so advanced that we were told that she might live 4-6 months without treatment, but perhaps only 9 months with treatment, but with all of its side effects. Mignon entered hospice in late December, and we managed her pain and the disease until early April, 2017. While she had a prescription for drugs to assist in her death, in the end, she succumbed to the cancer.
âI have testified during all of the sessions since her death in opposition to criminalization.â
We are so grateful for Ronâs support and hope youâll be inspired by Ron and our many dedicated volunteers to join us. https://compassionandchoices.org/volunteer/