Tinley’s Mom

Tinley’s Mom Behing the Scenes with Tara and Tinley Thompson. God’s blessings for you were not contingent on the opinion, words or thoughts of the public or your peers.

I Did My Job… And You Threw Me AwayWhen I was a young horse, you made a living off my back.We rode through tens of thous...
06/12/2026

I Did My Job… And You Threw Me Away

When I was a young horse, you made a living off my back.

We rode through tens of thousands of cattle. We doctored the sick, penned the injured, and worked from daylight until dark. Rain, sleet, hail, snowstorms—it didn’t matter. I showed up and I did my job.

As I got older, I helped raise your kids.

I taught them to sort cattle. I taught them to drag calves to the fire in the branding pen. I taught them everything you taught me… and maybe a little extra.

I carried them safely while they learned. I forgave their mistakes. I gave them my best years.

But then they grew up.

And I grew old.

Then I got hurt. I hung my foot in a feeder.

Suddenly, no one came to doctor me. No one came to take care of me. No one came to repay the loyalty I had given for a lifetime.

Instead, you hauled me to Billings and sold me loose.

You wrote a note about all the things I had done for you, but my foot was cut and infected. The years of service didn’t seem to matter anymore. You had taken the time to acknowledge my service but never once took the time to doctor me. Your excuse was you had too many cattle to worry with and no time.

You left me for someone else to worry about.

But God wasn’t finished with me yet.

Jacob bought me. He felt sorry for me, and he knew his wife had a new ozone machine she wanted to use. She cleaned my wound, treated my foot, and helped me heal.

Then something unexpected happened.

A family came looking for a horse.

Not a young horse.
Not a perfect horse.

Just me.

They took me home after my foot healed. They took me to the veterinarian and had my teeth floated. They cleaned my sheath. They started me on supplements to help me feel better in my old age.

Most importantly, they gave me a purpose again.

Now I teach their son how to ride.

I teach him how to show.

I teach him the same lessons I once taught your children.

The difference is this family made me a promise:

No matter how old I get…
No matter what happens…

I’ll never have to worry again.

Because this time, I finally found my forever home.

The JT Livestock promise isn’t that every client will find the perfect horse.

Our promise is to the horses.

We promise to find them the right people.

The kind of people who will love them, care for them, and stand by them through every season of life. People who understand that horses aren’t disposable when things get hard. They are a commitment, a partnership, and a responsibility.

At JT Livestock, we’re proud to say we have incredible clients. They are the type of people who do what’s right, even when it’s inconvenient. If a horse needs extra training, they invest in training. If a horse needs veterinary care, they provide it. If a horse needs time, patience, and understanding, they give it freely.

Because the best horse owners aren’t the ones who never face challenges. They’re the ones who refuse to give up when challenges arise.

Our goal has never been to simply sell horses. Our goal is to place horses with people who will advocate for them, protect them, and give them the life they deserve.

That’s the JT Livestock Promise. Not perfect horses—perfect homes. ❤️🐴

06/12/2026
Hello Everyone!  -> T SHIRT FUND RAISER Trinity and Tinley are launching a few T Shirts that you can order from our T Sh...
06/12/2026

Hello Everyone! -> T SHIRT FUND RAISER

Trinity and Tinley are launching a few T Shirts that you can order from our T Shirt store!

Youth Fund Raiser Shirt

https://www.customink.com/fundraising/tinleys-youth-fund-raiser?utm_campaign=mobile-campaign-page-share&utm_content=tinleys-youth-fund-raiser&utm_medium=social&utm_source=copy-link

Pink : Leopard JT Livestocn Shirt

https://www.customink.com/fundraising/nlbra-finals-fund-raiser?utm_campaign=mobile-campaign-page-share&utm_content=nlbra-finals-fund-raiser&utm_medium=social&utm_source=copy-link

Safety Pink JT Livestock Shirt

https://www.customink.com/fundraising/jt-safety-pink?utm_campaign=mobile-campaign-page-share&utm_content=jt-safety-pink&utm_medium=social&utm_source=copy-link

Team Tye Dye - Blocked Shirt

https://www.customink.com/fundraising/nlbra-finals-fund-raiser?utm_campaign=mobile-campaign-page-share&utm_content=nlbra-finals-fund-raiser&utm_medium=social&utm_source=copy-link

Custom Tinley Design

https://www.customink.com/fundraising/tinleys-design?utm_campaign=mobile-post-launch-v3&utm_content=tinleys-design&utm_medium=social&utm_source=copy-link

Trin Design

https://www.customink.com/fundraising/trins-nlbra-fund-raisers?utm_campaign=mobile-post-launch-v3&utm_content=trins-nlbra-fund-raisers&utm_medium=social&utm_source=copy-link

We also have team Tinley and team Trinity custom back number shirts coming!

Please consider joining us in giving back!
You order a shirt, the proceeds go to the girls and their pay it forward at Finals campaign where they’re going to do random acts of kindness the whole week of Little Britches finals!

06/09/2026

Welcome to JT Livestock Co
- the trading barn -

Who is going? Send us a PM, if you’ll be there!!! Their schools are incredible, they’re so much fun and there is so much...
06/07/2026

Who is going? Send us a PM, if you’ll be there!!! Their schools are incredible, they’re so much fun and there is so much to learn!

NOTICE:
If you have been trying to sign up for our second summer school and have not been able to submit your entry, please go back now and try again. There was a glitch in the program which we were just made aware of. It has been fixed and entries can be submitted.

If you are still deciding, do not wait! We have just a few spots left and they are filling up fast.

GET YOUR ENTRIES IN TODAY!
https://barrelracers.com/pages/2024-school-registration

06/06/2026

I bought this horse because of the story he came with. Hoping I didn’t get scammed 🤣😂

The amount of times I’ve been called a narcissist by complete strangers online simply because I wouldn’t let them run ov...
06/05/2026

The amount of times I’ve been called a narcissist by complete strangers online simply because I wouldn’t let them run over me, ignore my boundaries, or dictate how they think I should spend my time is honestly wild.

Somewhere along the way, people started confusing boundaries with arrogance, self-respect with selfishness, and confidence with narcissism.

A narcissist expects the world to revolve around them. A healthy person understands that their time, energy, and peace have value and protects those things accordingly.

Not everyone is going to like being told “no.” Not everyone is going to appreciate being held accountable for how they treat you. And when people are used to having unlimited access to others, a boundary can feel like an attack.

But someone being upset by your boundary doesn’t mean your boundary is wrong.

I’ve learned that some people will call you difficult simply because you’re no longer willing to be convenient for them. They’ll label you controlling because they can no longer control you. They’ll call you a narcissist because they don’t like hearing the word “no.”

That’s okay.

I don’t need strangers on the internet to agree with my boundaries. I just need to be comfortable enforcing them.

The people who genuinely care about you may not always like your boundaries, but they’ll respect them. The people who only benefited from you having none are usually the ones who get the loudest when you finally set them.

And honestly, when I take a step back and look at the people who have tried to run me over on social media, ignore my boundaries, force themselves into my space, and then call me out of my name when they don’t get their way, it does make me pause.

What I find interesting is that the same people accusing others of being narcissistic are often the ones who become angry when they can’t control the outcome, dictate the narrative, or force someone to conform to their opinion.

I’m not qualified to diagnose anyone, and I don’t pretend to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. But I do know that it’s common for people to project their own behaviors onto others. It’s also common for people to become frustrated when boundaries prevent them from getting the reaction, access, or influence they feel entitled to.

When someone repeatedly ignores your boundaries, refuses to respect your “no,” attempts to rewrite your reality, and then attacks your character when you won’t comply, that isn’t healthy communication. Whether it’s projection, manipulation, or simply a lack of emotional maturity, the result is the same.

The older I get, the less interested I am in arguing with people about who I am. If someone wants to believe a version of me that doesn’t exist, they’re free to do that. My job isn’t to manage their narrative. My job is to continue living with integrity, enforcing my boundaries, and treating people with respect—even when they don’t extend the same courtesy to me.

At some point, people have to take responsibility for their own reactions. Me having boundaries, not agreeing with their narrative, or feeling that they have zero value in my life is not an attack. Me saying “no” is not abuse. And me refusing to conform to someone else’s version of who they think I should be, and now valuing them enough to put any weight into their opinion does not make me a narcissist. It makes me unbothered 💜

“You really shouldn’t share so much on social media...”That statement gets me every time. Not because I agree with it, b...
06/05/2026

“You really shouldn’t share so much on social media...”

That statement gets me every time. Not because I agree with it, but because I don't.

See, if what I share is too much for you, please feel free to unfollow me, block me, or spend your time on platforms and pages that bring you peace. We all get to choose what we consume.

But I share because I can, because I want to, and because I know there are people out there who need someone they can relate to. I don't live a perfect life, and I choose to share my experiences so others can learn from my lessons. My biggest messes have often become my greatest messages.

One person's "she's doing too much" is another person's "she gives maximum effort." If I'm too much for you, that's okay. We simply aren't wired the same. Some people prefer to live quietly, avoiding attention, criticism, or opposition. That's their choice, and I respect it.

But my choice is different.

If something I share triggers something inside of you, that's okay too. We all have different personalities, different experiences, and different trauma responses. I respect those who prefer a quiet life away from public opinion and scrutiny.

For me, it's different.

I don't live a quiet life, and public judgment doesn't bother me much anymore. Truthfully, people who dedicate their time trying to humiliate, expose, or tear down others usually need my prayers more than my attention. Their behavior doesn't trigger me. It reminds me.

It reminds me that hurt people often hurt people.

So I'll keep sharing. I'll keep telling my stories. I'll keep talking about my failures, my victories, my faith, my family, and the lessons I've learned along the way.

Because somewhere out there, someone needs to hear that they aren't alone.

And if my life is too loud for your liking, that's okay.

You don't have to follow my journey.

But I won't apologize for living it.

I won't apologize for living out loud.

I won't minimize my presence, my platform, my following, or how often I choose to share my life. Because truthfully, it's awfully bold for anyone to come to my platform and suggest that I should be less so they can be more comfortable.

This isn't about you.

This is my journey.

You don't have to like how I live it. You don't have to agree with every post, every opinion, or every lesson I choose to share. But expecting me to shrink myself to accommodate your preferences is not a reasonable expectation.

I spent too many years learning how to take up space, finding my voice, building my confidence, and becoming comfortable with who God created me to be. I'm not interested in making myself smaller because someone else finds my authenticity overwhelming.

Some people are called to live quietly. Some people are called to share their story. Neither is wrong.

But I refuse to believe that being visible, passionate, transparent, or outspoken is something I should apologize for.

If my posts inspire you, I'm grateful.

If my posts challenge you, that's okay too.

And if my posts annoy you, the unfollow button has always been free.

At the end of the day, I'm not here to make everyone comfortable. I'm here to live my life, share my experiences, tell my story, and hopefully help a few people along the way.

I will not apologize for being myself.

And I certainly won't make myself less so someone else can feel more.

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