10/12/2026
On October 15, we light a candle for the babies who will forever be part of our stories and carried in our hearts.
Whether you are remembering your own baby, honoring someone else’s, or standing beside someone you love, there is room for you in this Wave of Light.
You don’t need to do anything extravagant or find the perfect words to show your support. On October 15, all you need to do is light a candle at 7:00 p.m. in honor of your baby or someone else’s, whether you know that family personally or not. This simple act of remembrance carries more weight than you could ever imagine.
As a mother living in a world where my daughter is no longer physically here, I can tell you that the acts of remembrance and hearing her name are some of the things that help me get through each day.
And I don’t just mean on October 15. I mean every day.
Fallon is always on my mind and forever in my heart. She is not someone I can leave behind, ignore as if she never existed, or simply move on from, as so many people believe grief asks us to do. Her life mattered. Her life still matters. Even if the only people whose worlds she changed were her dad’s and mine, her life will always have meaning.
I know so many other parents who feel the same. Parents who carry their babies with them through every ordinary day, every milestone, every celebration, and every moment they wish their child could be here for. Many suffer in silence because of how society responds to their loss, their love, and their grief.
That is why remembrance matters. That is why saying their names matters. And that is why showing up matters.
This October 15, I encourage you to stand with your friends, your family, and even strangers. Show bereaved parents that their baby matters. Their love matters. And their grief, no matter how quietly or loudly it is carried, matters.
So, at 7:00 p.m. on October 15, light a candle. For your baby. For someone else’s baby. For a family who needs to know their child has not been forgotten.
One small light can remind a grieving parent that they are not alone.
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Thank you Deanna Williams for the photos