05/03/2026
Tonight, at Toastmasters, I gave a speech with a title that definitely grabbed attention: “P**P.” 💩
What started as a discussion about introducing school-age children to the digestive system quickly became a broader conversation about how we handle difficult or uncomfortable topics — both with children and with each other as adults.
Using the acronym P**P, I shared a four-point approach for navigating challenging conversations:
P – Prepare
Think through the conversation before jumping into it.
O – Open Carefully
Choose words and timing thoughtfully to create trust rather than fear or embarrassment.
O – Own the Message
Whether discussing body functions, health, emotions, or other sensitive issues, people need calm and confident communication.
P – Provide a Path Forward
Offer guidance, reassurance, and constructive next steps rather than leaving confusion or discomfort behind.
While the speech used humor and the topic of the digestive system to engage the audience, the message extended well beyond childhood education. The P**P framework can also help adults approach difficult conversations with greater clarity, empathy, and purpose.