06/15/2026
This weekend I had what I would label as an uncomfortable experience as I represented my team in a public setting. While I really wanted to just move on and never think about it again, it does bring up some topics that I feel I don't really discuss on this page.
*Our team focuses a lot of our time and energy into historical research. As such this may make us put on a genealogy or historian hat, leaving the entire thought of the paranormal behind. We research history that you may never have considered needing to be done in relation to a location. A good example, one of our team did extensive research on terms related to ice cream making, structural engineering, pipe organ manufacturing, and architectural professionals. We research information that may be in relation to any topic that may arise for our investigations, but in reality we want to know the work and lives of those who walked the halls of any location. When we approach outside historians or representatives that may be involved with relevant history, we aren't interested in your location for investigative purposes. That may be a by-product at times but...
*We rarely have to ask to investigate a location, in almost every single case the last few years we have had locations request our services. It takes a lot of energy to request to investigate a location and to be honest, I don't feel the need these days. We are busy enough to not need that extra work. But it makes me have to say...
*Your attitude and your delivery could alter many people from not only seeking out help with research but also turn people away who are interested in becoming involved and maybe even donate to your organization. I will be the first to admit that I have strong opinions, but when I am representing my team in public I try to always meet others in the middle. We want people who are experiencing paranormal phenomena to seek us out, we want them to recognize our capability, and we do not want to seem eager for their location to be haunted or active. Which also leads me to...
*The times we live in are chaotic and divided. While we don't ask you to adopt the beliefs of others, it is important to understand your opinion and belief is YOURS. How you react is also yours. A few years ago I did a very extensive presentation and met with the board of a location. While they were very welcoming and interested, they ultimately said no. Before they gave me their final answer I had met up with one of the people involved and he was not friendly making known he believed we were all stupid for believing in the paranormal. You can have any opinion you want, but here are two truths, no one needs to prove to you that the paranormal exists and your words tarnish the whole group. Plus it was the rudest experience I have had in a public setting and that is saying a lot.
Lastly (on the opposing side), if you have a team or group that investigates the paranormal, please be professional when seeking out locations to investigate. Attempt to be more subtle in your requests and recognize that some locations do not want to be associated with the paranormal. In many cases there are safety concerns involved and nothing to do with their belief. All in all, this experience has solidified another place I won't patronize and proves what kind of people they have involved. Basically, we are not welcome.
-Rebecca-