08/27/2023
Happy Black Breast/ Chest / Body Feeding Week
Human milk and black people have a very interesting history. We fed a nation that told us that we were inferior and that we didn’t belong. We were taught that breast/ chest feeding was nasty and for poor people.
I did not grow up around people that breast fed. In fact, I never even saw a person breastfeed until I was in college and one of my friends had a baby.
All I knew is that when I had babies of my own, I wanted to breastfeed.
I didn’t know anything about the benefits for me or baby, but I felt like it was what I should do. I had my oldest in 2009 and we began the journey that changed my life.
My experience as a breastfeeding parent was very different in both cases. I don’t have any beautiful pictures to share because when I was feeding my oldest, I had to cover up or feed my baby in a car. People would tell me to go to the bathroom even with the cover on, but I took my baby outside and fed her.
People joked about me breastfeeding. They said she would never get off of my breast. She wouldn’t take a bottle, so I stayed home and no one understood. It was the most beautiful experience and for me it would be the only baby that I would give birth to.
I’m so grateful for the 15 months that I was able to exclusively breastfeed my daughter. I’m happy to have created a bond with her. I am honored to have been able to sustain her life and give her nutrients from my body.
I’m thankful for being able to use my milk and milk sharing to help my son. Inducing lactation not only fixed my son’s skin and digestive system when nothing else worked, but it made him happier and calmed an otherwise inconsolable baby.
Both experiences shaped who I am and fueled my fire to become an IBCLC and a future midwife. Both experiences have allowed me to assist those within my community and so many others to feed their babies human milk.
Here’s to those that have joined the revolution and fed their babies. Whether you pumped, exclusively breast fed, or combo fed with formula and human milk…you did that!!!
For those of you that didn’t or couldn’t feed your babies your milk, this is not an attack on you. It is a celebration of what we as a culture have done and are doing to improve the infant mortality rates for Black babies.
Let’s keep spreading the word and changing the outcomes for our babies. ❤️🖤💚✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿