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Moderation Management Public Page Moderation Management™ (MM) is a lay-led nonprofit dedicated to reducing the harm caused by the misuse of alcohol. What is Moderation Management? No.

Why is a Moderation Program needed? According to the NIAAA and many other independent researchers, there are four times as many problem drinkers as alcoholics in this country. Yet there are very few programs that specifically address the needs of beginning stage problem drinkers, while there are literally thousands of programs for the smaller population who are seriously alcohol dependent. By the

time people reach serious stages of alcohol dependency, changing drinking becomes more difficult, and treatment is usually costly. MM believes that this situation needs to be remedied in the interest of public health and human kindness with early intervention and harm reduction programs. Moderation programs are less costly, shorter in duration, less intensive, and have higher success rates than traditional abstinence-only approaches. Nine out of ten problem drinkers today actively and purposefully avoid traditional treatment approaches. This is because they know that most traditional programs will label them as "alcoholic", probably force attendance at 12 step and abstinence based meetings, and prescribe lifetime abstinence as the only acceptable change in drinking. They may also have real concerns about how their participation in these programs will affect their jobs and ability to attain future medical and life insurance. MM is seen as a less threatening first step, and one that problem drinkers are more likely to attempt before their problems become nearly intractable. Not surprisingly, approximately 30% of MM members go on to abstinence-based programs. This is consistent with research findings from professional moderation training programs. Traditional approaches that are based on the disease model of alcohol dependence and its reliance on the concept of powerlessness can be particularly counterproductive for women and minorities, who often already feel like victims and powerless. Outcome studies indicate that professional programs which offer both moderation and abstinence have higher success rates than those that offer abstinence only. Clients tend to self-select the behavior change options which will work best for them. Moderation Management (MM) is a behavioral change program and national support group network for people concerned about their drinking and who desire to make positive lifestyle changes. MM empowers individuals to accept personal responsibility for choosing and maintaining their own path, whether moderation or abstinence. MM promotes early self-recognition of risky drinking behavior, when moderate drinking is a more easily achievable goal. MM is run by lay members who came to the organization to resolve personal issues and stayed to help others. MM was the first moderation-based support and help entry on the the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) "Rethinking Drinking" website under Info and Help links:
http://rethinkingdrinking.niaaa.nih.gov/ToolsResources/Resources.asp

Moderation Management is recognized as an evidence-based program, on a similar level to other mainstream rehabilitation therapies. We are, along with Moderate Drinking, listed on SAMSHA's National Registry of Evidence-based Programs and Practices (NREPP) website:
http://nrepp.samhsa.gov/ViewIntervention.aspx?id=212

(Moderatedrinking.com is a subscription-based program with greater supervision than MM. Net proceeds are donated to Moderation Management, a free self-help group. Aside from Moderatedrinking.com and a few other sponsors, MM is largely member-supported.) We may be encountering a significant change in the recovery community. To understand better what is happening, please see this article: "Alcoholism Isn't What It Used To Be"
http://www.spectrum.niaaa.nih.gov/features/alcoholism.aspx

What does MM offer? A supportive mutual-help environment that encourages people who are concerned about their drinking to take action to cut back or quit drinking before drinking problems become severe. A nine-step professionally reviewed program, which provides information about alcohol, moderate drinking guidelines and limits, drink monitoring exercises, goal setting techniques, and self-management strategies. As a major part of the program, members also use the nine steps to find balance and moderation in many other areas of their lives, one small step at a time. What does MM cost? MM meetings are free of charge. Small donations made by individual members and MM groups are used to support community and national programs. What are the basic premises of MM? Behaviors can be changed. MM agrees with many professionals and researchers in the field that alcohol abuse, versus dependence, is a learned behavior (habit) for problem drinkers, and not a disease. This approach recognizes that people who drink too much can suffer from varying degrees of alcohol-related problems, ranging from mild to moderate to severe. A reasonable early option for problem drinkers is moderation. Seriously dependent drinkers will probably find a return to moderate drinking a great challenge, but the choice to accept that challenge remains theirs. Moderation is a reasonable, practical, and attainable recovery goal for many problem drinkers. Outcome studies indicate that brief intervention programs are successful and cost effective. The Values that guide MM:
Members take personal responsibility for their own recovery from a drinking problem. People helping people is the strength of the organization. People who help others to recover also help themselves. Self-esteem and self-management are essential to recovery. Members treat each other with respect and dignity. Assumptions of MM:
Problem drinkers should be offered a choice of behavioral change goals. Harmful drinking habits should be addressed at a very early stage, before problems become severe. Problem drinkers can make informed choices about moderation or abstinence goals based upon educational information and the experiences shared at self-help groups. Harm reduction is a worthwhile goal, especially when the total elimination of harm or risk is not a realistic option. People should not be forced to change in ways they do not choose willingly. Moderation is a natural part of the process from harmful drinking, whether moderation or abstinence becomes the final goal. Most individuals who are able to maintain total abstinence first attempted to reduce their drinking, unsuccessfully. Moderation programs shorten the process of "discovering" if moderation is a workable solution by providing concrete guidelines about the limits of moderate alcohol consumption. Is MM for every person with a drinking problem? Research suggests that no one solution is best for all people with drinking problems. There are many possible solutions available to each individual, and MM suggests the each person finds the solution that is best for him or her. MM is good place to begin to address a drinking problem. If MM proves to be an ineffective solution, the individual is encouraged to progress to a more radical solution. Is moderation a reasonable option for you? This is your decision. To be successful at moderation or abstinence requires effort and a commitment to change. You should take into account the severity of your drinking problem, your personal preference, and any medical, psychological, or other conditions that would be made worse by drinking, even in moderation. If you are unsure, seek professional advice. MM does not provide professional assessment or treatment. What if moderation does not work for you? After completing 30 days of abstinence (step two of the MM program) and then starting the moderation part of the program, you may discover that it is more difficult for you to moderate your drinking than to abstain. In this case, consider a self-management goal of abstinence. Some members of MM who choose abstinence remain in our program; others find an abstinence-only group to attend. Return to the Top of the Page


Our Sponsors:
Moderate Drinking Addiction Alternatives Practical Recovery The Center for Optimal Living-NYC
Interested in becoming a Sponsor of Moderation Management? Go to Moderation.org.

To close out Mental Health Awareness Month, we’re honored to share something a little different. ✨These six pieces are b...
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To close out Mental Health Awareness Month, we’re honored to share something a little different. ✨

These six pieces are by Rivkah Lapidus, Ph.D, LMHC — a longtime MM-Approved Provider, therapist, and artist whose work we deeply admire. We asked her art to do what good therapy often does: hold space without telling you what to feel.

Swipe through and sit with whatever comes up.

If Rivkah’s work resonates — her art or her approach to therapy — you can learn more about her at the link below, or reach out to connect with her directly.

🔗 rivkahlapidus.com
💻 rivkahlapidus.com/psychotherapy
📩 rivkahlapidus.com/contact

What if getting support didn’t mean being told what to do?Harm reduction therapy meets you where you are — no goals impo...
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What if getting support didn’t mean being told what to do?

Harm reduction therapy meets you where you are — no goals imposed on you, no shame for where you’re starting, no one-size-fits-all answers about your relationship with alcohol.

This week, we’re featuring Bob Basque, LCSW, an MM-Approved Provider and harm reduction specialist, who brings exactly this kind of compassionate, non-judgmental care to his clients.

Whether you’re curious about changing your relationship with alcohol or just starting to wonder “is this working for me?” — support like this exists.

✨ Bob is accepting new clients. Free consultation available at
starfishmentalhealth.com/contact

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Gary had been watching his drinking get worse for a few years. It didn’t increase dramatically: it just grew steadily, until it was threatening the things he cared about most: his marriage, his family, his work. "I tried many roads to figure out a way to turn things around," he says, "but everything was leading me to an 'all or nothing' solution, which is something that I did not feel was the right fit for me....

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Week 2 of our Mental Health Awareness Month Provider Spotlight — this week we’re talking about the moment before the drink. 💚

Have you ever poured a drink and only afterward realized you were actually lonely? Frustrated? Stinging from something that happened earlier that day?

That gap — between feeling something and understanding it — is where a lot of drinking lives. And it has a name: a mentalization breakdown. It’s not a character flaw. It’s a nervous system response.

Mentalization is our capacity to make sense of our own emotions and accurately read what’s going on with other people.

Under stress, that capacity goes offline — and alcohol often steps in as the fastest available shortcut to relief.

Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT) works to rebuild that capacity:

✅ Getting curious about what you were feeling before the urge hit
✅ Slowing down automatic, reactive responses
✅ Making sense of social situations that tend to lead to drinking
✅ Building coping strategies rooted in emotional understanding — not shame

Moderation becomes more sustainable when you understand what you’re moderating from.

Curious to learn more?

is an MM-Approved Provider specializing in this work — reach out at wholeviewwellness.com.

🔗 Find more MM-Approved Providers at moderationmanagement.org

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Wondering whether naltrexone vs. GLP-1 like Ozempic is best for mindful drinking? Sunnyside breaks down the nuances here.

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This Mental Health Awareness Month, we’re spotlighting MM-Approved Providers who are expanding what recovery can look like.

Week 1 feature: Thrive Alcohol Recovery
You don’t have to quit drinking to change your relationship with alcohol.

Thrive uses The Sinclair Method (TSM) — naltrexone + real drinking experiences — to gradually shift how your brain responds to alcohol. Over time: more control, more freedom, less grip.

Moderation that feels natural — not forced. 💛

thrivealcoholrecovery.com

👉 link in bio to find an MM-Approved Provider near you.

From our partners at     May is Women’s Health Month, a time to pay attention to how we’re actually feeling, not just wh...
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From our partners at

May is Women’s Health Month, a time to pay attention to how we’re actually feeling, not just what’s become routine.

But when it comes to alcohol, many of us are still operating on autopilot.

This month, we’re focusing on something simple: asking better questions.

No pressure. No judgment. Just honest check-ins with yourself.

In collaboration with , this is an invitation to pause, reflect, and pay attention to what your own patterns are telling you.

Awareness isn’t judgment. It’s information.

Did you know that 86% of MM survey participants say MM provides a supportive community? When people show up for themselv...
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Did you know that 86% of MM survey participants say MM provides a supportive community? When people show up for themselves, they end up showing up for each other, too.

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