Kicking DIS Ability

Kicking DIS Ability Shontaze Jones, Founder of Kicking DIS Ability, and proud mom of E’Daniel “Kicks” Smith Jr. Our journey is rooted in love, lived experience

Together, we advocate for inclusion, empower caregivers, and connect families to meaningful community resources. Shontaze Jones – Founder & Executive Director
I am a U.S. Army veteran, community advocate, and dedicated mother to my son, E’Daniel “Kicks” Smith Jr. My journey has been shaped by leadership, service, and a deep passion for creating inclusive spaces for children with disabilities. Over

the years, I have completed extensive trainings in leadership, community engagement, and professional development, including:

Military Leadership Training – Junior ROTC Battalion Commander, U.S. Army Reserves, Active Duty Service (2004–2007)

Professional Certifications – Dale Carnegie courses, University of Missouri trainings, Microsoft Office Specialist certifications, IC3 Digital Literacy, CompTIA ITF+, Veterans Employability Training

Community Service Leadership – Chair of the Veterans Action Board, member of the Coalition to End Homelessness, disability advocacy roles

My professional skills are strengthened by my lived experience as a single mother raising a child with Autism and ADHD. I homeschool Kicks, manage his therapy schedule—which includes speech, occupational, physical, and food therapy—and work daily to create tools, resources, and safe spaces that help him thrive. E’Daniel “Kicks” Smith Jr. – Co-Founder & Inspiration
Kicks is the heart and soul behind Kicking DIS Ability. Diagnosed with Autism and ADHD, he has inspired programs that are creative, inclusive, and tailored to children’s needs. His energy, curiosity, and resilience remind us every day why our mission matters. Whether it’s through inclusive playdates, hands-on workshops, or the visual learning boards we create together, Kicks has a direct role in shaping what KDA offers. Our Mission Together
We believe in breaking barriers, building acceptance, and creating opportunities for every child to belong. Our lived experience—both as a caretaker and as the child inspiring the vision—guides every decision we make for Kicking DIS Ability.

Wouldn’t it be a beautiful world if autism didn’t constantly have to be explained or defended?I once thought that as inc...
08/22/2026

Wouldn’t it be a beautiful world if autism didn’t constantly have to be explained or defended?

I once thought that as inclusion grew, understanding would grow with it. But too often, people say they accept autism while expecting autistic people to act “un-autistic.”

Being outside of safe spaces can already be exhausting. Having to defend your child against opinions with no real understanding makes it even harder.

Acceptance isn’t asking autism to fit inside your box. It’s making room for autistic people to exist as they are.

My son doesn’t need to be less autistic to be accepted.

I’m proud my son is autistic. 💙

08/19/2026

4 AM shenanigans with Kicks… AGAIN! 🤣😂

At this point, I don’t even know why I keep calling it bedtime. Kicks is wide awake, living his best life, and apparently I’m just along for the ride. 😩🤣

Who needs sleep when you’ve got Kicks keeping the overnight shift entertaining? 😂💙

08/18/2026

The shenanigans are REAL over here! 😂

When Kicks only sleeps about 4 hours and lately thinks bedtime is somewhere between 2:30 and 4:00 AM… you already know our house is running on his schedule. 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

Autism parenting: where “bedtime” is apparently just a suggestion. 💙

07/31/2026

My Kicks and his Papa (my dad)

Kicks is so smart and he knows something is different with his papa and he keeps hearing "hospice care" throughout various conversations involving his papa.

He's starting to ask more questions as he is curious and suspicious there is something we are not telling him.

I can't help but wonder how I'll help him navigate the possibility of losing someone he loves so deeply. He was only 3 1/2 when he lost his grandmother (my mom).
He loved & adored her ❤️🪽

He's loves his Papa with his whole heart.

So, we're soaking in the hugs, the smiles, and the simple moments. Because no matter what tomorrow brings, these are the memories that last forever.

It's been a little quiet over here because we've been navigating something I know many families can relate to.Finding su...
07/15/2026

It's been a little quiet over here because we've been navigating something I know many families can relate to.
Finding summer activities, especially summer camps. 😞 for my son has been much harder than I ever imagined. He has very specific interests, and many camps just aren't designed to accommodate children who need support but don't fit the typical picture people have of autism.

Too often, autism is only recognized when it's nonverbal or visibly apparent. But many children, like my son, need supervision, routine, and individualized accommodations that aren't always available.

The search for a camp that's both affordable and truly inclusive has been a challenge. We know we're not the only family facing this, and it's one more reminder that true inclusion means making space for all autistic children... not just those who fit a certain mold.

💙

Some of our favorite adventures are the simplest ones. E'Daniel loves visiting familiar places like the library and muse...
06/03/2026

Some of our favorite adventures are the simplest ones.

E'Daniel loves visiting familiar places like the library and museums. While he may choose the same places repeatedly, I do my best to accommodate what makes him feel comfortable, safe, and happy. Every visit is an opportunity to learn, grow, and create positive memories.




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Today E’Daniel "Kicks" visited the orthopedic doctor to get molds made for his new custom leg and foot braces. What star...
05/28/2026

Today E’Daniel "Kicks" visited the orthopedic doctor to get molds made for his new custom leg and foot braces. What started with anxiety and fear quickly turned into smiles thanks to Miss Connie at Mary Free Bed Orthotics.

She patiently explained every step, reassured him he was safe, and helped him use deep breathing techniques to work through his fears. Watching him grow comfortable and begin enjoying the process was such a proud moment.

Thank you, Miss Connie, for your kindness and compassion!

Sometimes there’s no respite, no sitter, and no time to wait on our own medical needs. So autism moms and caregivers do ...
05/17/2026

Sometimes there’s no respite, no sitter, and no time to wait on our own medical needs. So autism moms and caregivers do what we always do, create comfort wherever we are. Snacks, favorite shows, headphones, and safe spaces… because our care matters too.



My son Kicks and I recently read Finding My Brother’s Voice by fellow autism mom Kameelah Marie, and we absolutely loved...
05/14/2026

My son Kicks and I recently read Finding My Brother’s Voice by fellow autism mom Kameelah Marie, and we absolutely loved it!

This beautiful story follows a young brother Kylan (the detective 😉) trying to understand and connect with his older nonverbal autistic brother Kameron through patience, love, and communication.

My son Kicks is verbally autistic, he related to this book so much.

I truly recommend this book for all families... whether your child is autistic or not. It’s a wonderful reminder that every child communicates differently and deserves understanding and support.

Kameelah Marie this was such a easy & balanced read. Keep us posted on what comes next!

Finding My Brother’s Voice on Amazon
https://a.co/d/01vaLraH

Happy Mother’s Day to all the amazing moms, grandmas, godmothers, bonus moms, and mother figures! Thank you for being yo...
05/10/2026

Happy Mother’s Day to all the amazing moms, grandmas, godmothers, bonus moms, and mother figures!

Thank you for being your child’s biggest champion, loudest cheerleader, and greatest source of love. Today we celebrate YOU!



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