06/01/2026
"Before it was self, self, self, self, selfish. Everything for self. Catch me if you can."
Elyse is describing who she used to be. Self-centered. Running. Taking. Using people. The kind of living that eventually led to 13 years in prison.
But now?
"Now I wake up day to day—how can I service you? You know, my Lord, my higher power, my God, Jesus Christ who died on the cross for my sins. And I don't have a problem announcing that. Not one bit. But I wake up every morning and I ask how can I be of service to you, and I go throughout my day. I want to be an example for my children."
Think about that shift. From "everything for self" to "how can I serve."
That's not just behavior modification. That's a complete reorientation of life. A change in what you wake up thinking about. A change in who you're living for.
Elyse spent 13 years incarcerated. She came out and started doing prison reentry work with Advocate of Shalom. And every morning, she wakes up asking how she can be of service—to God, to the people she works with, to her children who are watching.
"I want to be an example for my children."
This is what real transformation looks like. Not perfection. Not having it all figured out. Just waking up every day with a different question than the one you used to ask.
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