09/20/2026
ππ¦ SEPTEMBER SU***DE PREVENTION & AWARENESS MONTH β TODAY WE HONOR SU***DE LOSS SURVIVORS π¦π
Prevention is an important part of this month.
But so is remembering.
So is grieving.
And so is supporting the people who are learning how to carry life forward after someone they love has died by su***de.
A su***de loss survivor is someone who has lost a family member, friend, coworker, classmate, partner, or other important person to su***de.
If that's you, today we want to make space for you. π
Su***de grief can be incredibly complicated. Along with sadness and missing your person, there may be anger, guilt, confusion, unanswered questions, relief, fear, or moments when you feel okay followed by moments when the grief comes rushing back.
There isn't one βrightβ way to grieve.
π¦ A FEW REMINDERS FOR LOSS SURVIVORS
π Give yourself permission to grieve at your own pace. There is no timeline you have to follow.
π¦ Find people who can listen without trying to explain, judge, or fix your grief.
π Consider connecting with other su***de loss survivors. There can be something incredibly powerful about being around people who understand parts of this experience without needing everything explained.
π¦ Take care of the basics when you canβeat, drink water, rest, move your body, and give yourself permission to step away when things become overwhelming.
π Find ways to remember your person that feel meaningful to you. Say their name. Tell their stories. Look at pictures. Make something. Visit a favorite place. Laugh at the memories that still make you laugh.
π¦ And please remember that asking for additional supportβfrom a grief group, counselor, trusted person, or crisis resourceβis okay.
Grief doesn't mean forgetting. Healing doesn't mean you stop loving or missing them.
π FOR OUR KIDS & TEENS
Children and teenagers grieve, tooβand their grief may look very different from an adult's.
They may ask the same questions repeatedly. They may want to talk one minute and play or laugh the next. They may become angry, quiet, anxious, clingy, distracted, or have difficulty at school.
Whenever developmentally appropriate, give kids honest, clear information about the death. Let them know questions are welcome. Avoid placing blame on one event or one person, and remind them that they can talk about their person and their feelings.
One resource we especially want families to know about is the Dougy Center: The National Grief Center for Children & Families. π
The Dougy Center has resources specifically for children, teens, young adults, parents and caregivers, including resources for families after a su***de death. Their website includes tip sheets, activities, podcasts, grief toolkits, and information about finding grief support.
They also offer guidance specifically for adults supporting children and teens after a su***de death, including how to talk honestly about what happened and navigate some of those incredibly difficult βwhy?β questions.
π¦ RESOURCES FOR ADULT LOSS SURVIVORS
π American Foundation for Su***de Prevention (AFSP) β offers su***de-loss resources, a support-group directory, a Surviving a Su***de Loss resource and healing guide, resources for children and teens, and additional survivor resources.
π 988 Su***de & Crisis Lifeline β 988 isn't only for someone experiencing suicidal thoughts. If you're struggling following a su***de loss and need support, you can call or text 988. Their website also provides information specifically for su***de loss survivors.
π Su***de Loss Support Groups β being with others who have experienced su***de loss can help reduce the isolation that sometimes comes with this kind of grief. Both AFSP and other national organizations can help connect survivors with groups and resources.
And to the people supporting a su***de loss survivor:
You don't need perfect words.
Sometimes the most meaningful thing you can say is simply:
βI remember them.β
βYou can talk about them with me.β
βI'm still here.β
Today, we invite Campbell County to help us honor those we've lost and the people who continue to carry their memories. π¦
π Share the name of someone you would like remembered today.
π¦ Share a favorite memory if you feel comfortable.
π Leave a heart, butterfly, or kind word for su***de loss survivors in our community.
Or simply read the names and stories shared by others and help us make sure they are remembered.
Because su***de prevention includes supporting those who are struggling.
It includes remembering those we have lost.
And it includes wrapping around the people who are still here. π
π¦ Foster Connection. Instill Hope. Promote Healing. π¦
You are not alone.