10/21/2026
WELL SAID...👏👏👏
LET’S HAVE AN HONEST CONVERSATION ABOUT RESPONSIBILITY, CHURCHES, AND HELPING THOSE IN NEED.
As the Executive Director of
Sage and Sweetgrass at the Bradshaw House Inc. ., I believe in helping people. That is the heart of our mission. However, I also believe in accountability, shared responsibility, and organizations doing their part.
When churches reach out to our nonprofit asking us to house individuals, I sometimes have to ask a difficult but necessary question:
Why is a small, independently funded nonprofit being asked to take on the responsibility when the church or organization making the request may have greater resources, facilities, funding, and a support system to help that individual?
Let me be clear: I am not saying that churches should not refer people to us. I understand that there are situations where we may be an appropriate resource. But a referral should not automatically mean that the responsibility falls on us and us ALONE!
Sage & Sweetgrass at the Bradshaw House Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit serving Northeastern North Carolina by providing essential resources and housing to those in need. We currently house individuals, help people navigate difficult circumstances, connect them with resources, and work to give them an opportunity to rebuild their lives.
We do this without government funding. The house was purchased with my own personal funds and renovated with my own money, hard work, sweat, and tears. We depend on donations and the generosity of others to continue this work.
We cannot continue to be expected to carry the weight of the community's needs while other organizations with greater resources step back and pass the responsibility along.
The church is not just a place to worship. It is also a place where compassion should be put into action.
If a church has the ability to provide housing, financial assistance, temporary accommodations, or meaningful support, I believe those options should be explored before placing the entire burden on another nonprofit.
This is not about competition. It is not about recognition. It is not about refusing to help.
It is about partnership, accountability, and making sure the responsibility of caring for our neighbors is shared.
We will continue to help where we can, within our capacity and resources. But we must also protect the mission, sustainability, and people already depending on us.
Please do not mistake our compassion for an unlimited capacity to take on every need.
Helping people should never be the responsibility of just one organization. When we all have a role to play, we should all be willing to play it.
Belinda Dixon-Dawson
Executive Director
Sage & Sweetgrass at the Bradshaw House Inc.