03/26/2026
Today is Ivy Day.
For some students, it brings excitement. For many others, it brings disappointment.
If today didn’t go the way you hoped, take a breath.
You are allowed to feel disappointed. That feeling is real, and it’s valid.
But here’s what I want you to remember:
A decision made by someone who has never met you does not define who you are or what you have accomplished.
College admissions, especially at the most selective schools, is not a simple ranking of “the best” students. There are far more qualified, talented, hardworking students than there are spots available. The process is complex, subjective, and yes… often not entirely fair.
What is real is everything you’ve done over the past four years:
The effort. The growth. The late nights. The leadership. The resilience.
That doesn’t disappear because of one decision.
There are so many outstanding colleges where you will be challenged, supported, and given opportunities to succeed. And here’s something important:
The schools that admitted you are excited about you.
They see something in you. They want you on their campus. They believe you will contribute and thrive.
It may be hard to see that today- and that’s okay.
But over the next few days, shift your focus to the places that said yes.
Your story is just getting started, and where you go does not determine how far you will go.