SAFE San Juans

SAFE San Juans 24/7 Crisis Line: (360) 378-2345
Office Numbers
San Juan: (360) 378-8680
Orcas: (360) 376-5979
Lopez: (360) 468-3788

Our mission is to support survivors of domestic violence (DV) and sexual assault/abuse (SA) while working to reduce abuse.

We're excited to share that SAFE San Juans has been selected to participate in the 2026 SJI Cares County Fair Giving Cam...
08/06/2026

We're excited to share that SAFE San Juans has been selected to participate in the 2026 SJI Cares County Fair Giving Campaign! đź’ś

In just one week, the online catalog opens, and you'll have the opportunity to support our mission of providing free, confidential services to survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault in San Juan County.

Your generosity helps survivors access crisis support, safety planning, legal and medical advocacy, and so much more. Every gift makes a difference.

Be sure to follow us over the coming weeks as we share campaign updates, Game Days, and ways you can help your donation go even further!

Together, we can create a safer, more supportive community for everyone. đź’ś

Your body often notices what your mind is still trying to make sense of.If you constantly feel anxious before seeing you...
07/17/2026

Your body often notices what your mind is still trying to make sense of.

If you constantly feel anxious before seeing your partner, tense when you hear their footsteps, relieved when they're not around, or like you're always waiting for something to go wrong, those feelings are worth paying attention to.

Our nervous system is designed to protect us. Sometimes it recognizes patterns of fear, unpredictability, or control long before we're ready to put them into words.

Trust yourself and seek help if needed. đź’ś

Please don't hesitate to reach out:
24/7 Crisis Line: (360) 378-2345
San Juan Office: (360) 378-8680
Orcas Office: (360) 376-5979
Lopez Office: (360) 468-3788

[email protected]
www.safesj.org

Warning Signs of Grooming.Grooming doesn't usually start with obvious abuse. It often begins with trust, kindness, atten...
07/02/2026

Warning Signs of Grooming.

Grooming doesn't usually start with obvious abuse. It often begins with trust, kindness, attention, or mentorship before gradually becoming manipulation and control.

Grooming is used to create the conditions for sexual abuse by building trust, lowering boundaries, and making it harder for someone to recognize or speak up about what's happening.

Recognizing these patterns can help protect children, teens, and at-risk adults, and help us intervene before abuse occurs.

If you or someone you know needs support after experiencing sexual violence, SAFE San Juans is here to help. You don't have to navigate it alone. đź’ś

06/30/2026

Every survivor's experience matters. Every story helps shape a better future.

The Washington State Office of Crime Victims Advocacy (OCVA) has launched the "Compass Initiative", a statewide survivor needs assessment designed to better understand what survivors of crime need and what barriers make it difficult to access support.

This survey is especially important because it's focused on hearing from survivors whose voices may not have been included in shaping victim services in the past. Rather than evaluating existing programs, it's asking an important question:

>>What support do survivors need, and what gets in the way of accessing it?

At SAFE San Juans, we know that every survivor's journey is different. Living in a rural island community can present unique challenges when seeking safety, support, and resources. By sharing your experiences, you're helping create a clearer picture of survivor needs across Washington and informing future funding, policies, and programs that better support survivors statewide.

If you're a survivor and feel comfortable participating, we encourage you to consider taking the survey or sharing it with someone who may wish to participate. Responses will help ensure survivor voices continue to guide meaningful change.

đź“ŤSurvey Link: https://tinyurl.com/WA-OCVA-NeedsAssessment

If you have questions about the survey or need support, SAFE San Juans is here for you. Our services are free, confidential, and available to anyone impacted by domestic violence and sexual assault.

Not all abuse is physical.Many survivors experience tactics that are meant to intimidate, isolate, manipulate, or contro...
06/19/2026

Not all abuse is physical.

Many survivors experience tactics that are meant to intimidate, isolate, manipulate, or control them without ever leaving a visible mark. Recognizing these tactics is one way we can better support survivors and challenge harmful myths about abuse.

Please share to spread awareness!

Sexual violence can impact every part of a survivor's life.Every survivor's experience is different. Some impacts may be...
06/05/2026

Sexual violence can impact every part of a survivor's life.

Every survivor's experience is different. Some impacts may be immediate, while others may emerge over time. There is no "right" way to respond to trauma, and no timeline for healing.

Understanding the wide-ranging effects of sexual violence helps us replace judgment with compassion and support survivors with the care and respect they deserve.

If you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence, support is available. SAFE San Juans is here to listen, believe, and support survivors wherever they are in their journey.

05/28/2026

Does this sound familiar?

Washington state legally recognizes coercive control as a form of abuse.

Abuse is not always physical! For many survivors, it can look like being controlled, watched, isolated, manipulated, or made to fear the consequences of upsetting someone.

Coercive control can slowly take away a person’s independence, confidence, and sense of safety long before anyone else notices something is wrong.

Naming this form of abuse matters. Being believed matters. And recognizing the patterns matters, too.

If you’ve ever felt like you were constantly walking on eggshells, changing yourself to avoid conflict, or losing pieces of who you are in a relationship, you are not alone.

"I've never seen them act like that.""I just can't picture them doing that.""But they seem so nice."These are some of th...
05/19/2026

"I've never seen them act like that."
"I just can't picture them doing that."
"But they seem so nice."

These are some of the phrases survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault hear that can devalue or dismiss their experiences. The truth is that abusers often do not show their abusive behavior to outsiders. They hide it carefully, and when survivors come forward, they may not be believed because the person causing harm is seen as:

• A likable community member
• A valued family member
• A friendly coworker

But when we choose to believe the version of someone that the public sees rather than the reality a survivor is sharing, it can cause further harm. It can increase isolation, deepen self-doubt, and make it even harder for survivors to seek help or leave abusive situations.

At SAFE San Juans, we believe survivors, and we encourage others to do the same.

If you are experiencing domestic violence or sexual assault/abuse and are seeking support, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Phone Numbers:
24/7 Crisis Line: (360) 378-2345
San Juan office: (360) 378-8680
Orcas Office: (360) 376-5979
Lopez Office: (360) 468-3788

[email protected]
www.safesj.org

Last Big Game Day Event for GiveOrcas 2026!If you haven't had a chance to donate to an organization during GiveOrcas, no...
05/19/2026

Last Big Game Day Event for GiveOrcas 2026!
If you haven't had a chance to donate to an organization during GiveOrcas, now is the time! The grantee with the most $100 donors on May 19th will receive $1,000 from OICF!

Your donation to SAFE San Juans will help maintain an adequate level of support for survivors of Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault on Orcas.

We are excited for our supporters to participate in this opportunity, and we hope you choose to support survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault.

Please share to spread the word!

Want to Support Survivors this Weekend? Here's How...This weekend, donors have a chance to receive $250 from OICF to don...
05/15/2026

Want to Support Survivors this Weekend? Here's How...
This weekend, donors have a chance to receive $250 from OICF to donate to the grantee of their choice during the FunDay Monday event through GiveOrcas 2026. All weekend, donor names will go into a hat, and three names will be drawn on Monday, May 18th, for a chance to win!

Your generous contribution will aid survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault as they work to rebuild their lives after bravely seeking help to overcome the impacts of their traumatic experiences.

We are excited for our supporters to participate in this opportunity, and we hope you choose to support survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault.

Please share to spread the word!

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Tuesday 9am - 4pm
Wednesday 9am - 4pm
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