10/13/2023
Yesterday, approximately 30 Jr. Youth joined our gathering. During our devotions, we focused on fostering friendships, a theme that brings along various aspects. We typically divide the attendees into two groups: 5th and 6th graders, and 7th and 8th graders. On that day, I, along with an 8th-grade parent named Ashley, led the younger group, while Pastor and a parent of a 5th grader named Karen took charge of the 7th and 8th graders.
To kick things off, I distributed cups of M&Ms to each group. Once we gave the signal to start, the youth had to sort the M&Ms by color with as little talking as possible. In the younger group, we noticed they initially split into smaller clusters, but eventually, they realized it was more efficient to gather at the counter, pour out their M&Ms, and sort them together. At the beginning, it was a bit challenging with minimal communication, but by the end, they had it figured out.
When we reconvened, we discussed their experience. They acknowledged that it was indeed challenging with limited talking but found it easier due to the smaller group. Some even suggested it might be more interesting with a larger group, something we might consider in the future. My aim is always to incorporate games or activities that complement our devotions.
We also delved into the idea of whether disagreements and conflicts could arise when working with a group of people, similar to friendships where disagreements can occur. The participants seemed to thoroughly enjoy this discussion. The 7th and 8th graders also did well with their activity, showing strategic thinking. The younger group impressed me with their discussion, and I was able to hear some of the 7th and 8th graders share their thoughts, which was equally impressive.
Additionally, each group wrote down what they liked about their Christian friends and what they would look for in such a friend if they hadn't found one yet. Their responses were astounding, with some sharing more than one thing. We read from the Bible and had the youth take turns in prayer. Special thanks to Lucas, who prayed for the older group, and Cora, who led the younger group in prayer.
