03/11/2025
Redefining the Veteran Experience Beyond Victimhood
In recent years, we have witnessed a burgeoning number of not-for-profit organizations aimed at supporting veterans. While the intent behind these organizations often stems from a place of compassion and a desire to help, I find myself increasingly disillusioned by the pervasive narrative that tends to frame veterans as victims. This narrative not only undermines the strength and resilience of those who have served our nation but also inadvertently positions them alongside other marginalized groups seeking sympathy rather than empowerment.
As a veteran myself, I understand the complexities of our experiences. We have faced unimaginable challenges on the battlefield, and many of us return home carrying the invisible wounds of war—post-traumatic stress (PTS), traumatic brain injury (TBI), and other mental health struggles. However, it is crucial that we do not allow these challenges to define our identity. Veterans are not victims; we are warriors, guardians of freedom, and proud defenders of our nation.
In an era where various social movements advocate for their respective communities by emphasizing victimhood, I worry that the veteran community is being drawn into this narrative. It seems that many organizations, in their quest to raise awareness and funds, have unwittingly relegated veterans to the role of a “special interest” group, eliciting pity rather than respect. This approach is not only disheartening, but it also diminishes the incredible resilience that veterans embody.
Six years ago, I founded The Warrior 110, a not-for-profit organization with a mission to address the unique struggles faced by combat veterans. Our goal was to create a platform that raises awareness about PTS and TBI while also empowering veterans to reclaim their lives and mental health. We chose to focus on practical solutions, such as engaging veterans in Brazilian jiu-jitsu and other physical activities that promote mental and physical well-being.
At The Warrior 110, we have made a conscious effort to steer clear of the “poor me” narrative. Our messaging and actions are rooted in motivation and self-improvement, rather than victimization. We believe that by fostering a culture of strength, resilience, and camaraderie, we can help veterans help themselves. The journey may be fraught with challenges, but it is through facing these challenges head-on that we truly honor our service and the sacrifices we have made.
As we navigate the complexities of post-service life, it is vital that we celebrate the strength of our veteran community rather than perpetuate a narrative that seeks to evoke sympathy. We are not looking for pity; we seek respect, understanding, and the opportunity to thrive. By reframing the conversation around veterans, we can inspire a new generation of warriors who are empowered to confront their struggles, embrace their identities, and contribute positively to society.
In conclusion, I call upon my fellow veterans and the organizations that represent us to shift the focus from victimhood to empowerment. Let us embody the mantra “veterans not victims” and honor our service by embracing the strength, courage, and resilience that define us. Together, we can create a narrative that uplifts and inspires, rather than relegates us to a position of pity. We are warriors—let us act like one.
Brian M. Alvey
CEO & Founder
The Warrior 110
TheWarrior110.org
“I’m not a survivor, I’m a Warrior.”
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(Let’s drop the D!)
