07/14/2026
Over time, we notice the same emotions returning repeatedly. We may even sense how our emotions solidify into personality traits, worldviews, and identities. This gives us the foundation to broaden our view.
For example, we might notice fear in a moment, but realize it's just one emotion in a larger pattern of social anxiety, which also includes shame, jealousy, sadness, and more. By recognizing the pattern, and applying compassion, we gain access to more expansive healing.
The largest pattern is our sense of self itself, subtly shifting over the years. We can say, "I'll support you no matter what, always" to our entire self and address all the times in the past we have felt isolated and abandoned. Then, we can let that self relax into the greater presence that it came from.
The skill to adjust our aperture comes with time, as does the ever-deepening understanding of our patterns and willingness to set them down.