02/18/2025
Dear Reddit user, I saw your post criticizing this survivor's page. You are right that FA is not as abusive as many other TTI places. However this page has every right to exist and we are survivors.
FA accepted me at a hard point in my life, right after I finished a wilderness therapy program after a boarding school kicked me out. The person who took me in, Vince, has long resume of TTIs he's worked at and grieves the closings. While I was grateful to be somewhere, overall the institution did not help me in the long run. They put me on life-changing medications through persuading my parents and psychiatrist, which caused lasting health problems in the following years. While it's true they did not technically prescribe them, they were the reason I said yes. If I could see the future, I would have said hell no.
Academically, no school has mistreated me like FA has. They gave me worse grades due to how I learned, even sent home false reports. When I returned home, went to both public school and college, my grades were amazing. It's ironic that a school for "bright students with unique learning styles" turns the same students against learning. Thankfully I left when it was possible.
Back to your post, you imply that a student "not being able to get into AP English" is a trivial issue. It's not! AP classes are essential for advancing in college. No school that costs over 50k should be holding back the students. It's a scandal.
I appreciate how you admit the school is not therapeutic because they don't have therapists and allow technology. Their lack of therapists means the counselors can easily break confidentiality and tell your parents about the sessions. They allow technology as bread and circuses, so students won't realize what the school is holding from them.
A survivor does not have to be someone who was nearly murdered or starved. It can be someone who went through unnecessary experiences. This is who we are empowering on FA-CT survivors. Let me finish with a Desmond Tutu quote "I am not interested in picking up crumbs of compassion thrown from the table of someone who considers himself my master. I want the full menu of rights."