11/02/2026
What's This Life For?
I'm sitting in the office this morning getting things ready for the week while Alexa plays Creed. Sometimes I just need to hear certain songs or bands, depending on what's rattling around in my brain and heart.
Their song, "What's This Life For" came on, and I'm reminded of going to the Creed concert in Dyersville this past summer with my son, nephew and brother. It was such a cool experience; something I'll remember forever. Thousands of us huddled around the stage, singing all the songs together. It felt like we were a powerful force for good while singing at the top of our lungs. Nothing else mattered in that moment. We were just all together; united.
Like many, I was checking Facebook last night while the President of the United States was in town. I saw the people lining up to support and to protest. I saw the garbage trucks and even caught a glimpse of the motorcade cruising through town. It reminded me of being in the Marine Corps when President Clinton visited our base in Maryland. It was a big deal, to say the least.
I also saw how the Solidarity mural was temporarily covered and was immediately reminded of when that painting was created and how friends near and far participated in making it happen. I like looking at that image from time to time, seeing the different colors and groups of people represented. I like how it seems to capture nearly everyone in our community. I think the mural also reminds me of what was intended in the very beginning for Resources Unite. We used to stay up late sitting in each other's back yards, dreaming aloud about a place where resources worked together, collaborated, and did great work.
However, the mural being temporarily covered reminded me that we're not as united as we could be. As a community and a country, we seem focused more on division, discord and isolation than on unity and solidarity. I remember first seeing the F Joe Biden flags and posters years ago and saw similar ones directed to President Trump yesterday. I remember actually seeing the first F Joe Biden flag near where I live like it was yesterday. It filled me with disappointment and sadness and it had nothing to do with who it was directed to; rather, it was a stark reminder of what we have become. I can't hear one more commercial or see one more print ad of one party vilifying another. I don't want to be constantly reminded of what we've become.
No one benefits from the place we are now. Everyone is impacted and as a community and country, we have only become more separated and vulnerable. The threads that once held us a little tighter together feel like they have completely come undone. Sadly, we know this reality has far reaching consequences. And to be clear, this is not some passive note about how all this discord started under one person's watch and not another. If only it were that simple. The seeds for this type of division were planted long ago.
What's This Life For? I don't think our life is for screaming at our brother, sister and neighbor. No, our lives were meant to be for so much more.
"I see your soul, it's kind of gray, you see my heart, you look away. You see my wrist, I know your pain. I know your purpose on your plane. Don't say a last prayer..."
We are all hurting. This is not the way. We are better than this. I know we are. What's This Life For? Our lives are for peace, for love and for coming together no matter who you are, no matter your race, color, religion or creed.