05/24/2026
We all show up in different ways for the ones we love — even when they’re no longer with us.
Tom Whalen is a dedicated Walk to End Alzheimer’s emcee and volunteer who shows up year after year in honor of his twin brother, Mike, who had Alzheimer’s.
Because he lived in another state, Tom didn’t see the changes in his brother firsthand. A conversation with his sister-in-law marked a turning point. She shared that Mike, once an accountant, was no longer able to do his job. He was just 49 years old.
As twins, their bond was unique. Tom remembers Mike as “a better athlete, a better man, a better father,” but most of all, a beloved part of a close-knit family. Through the loss of his twin brother, Tom found a way to turn his family's grief into purpose.
An on-air broadcaster, Tom was introduced to the Alzheimer’s Association when he was invited to join a Walk to End Alzheimer’s team. What started as a simple invitation quickly grew into something much more meaningful.
“I participate as a way to honor my brother. I wasn’t a hands-on caregiver, so this is a way to do something.” And “something” has become a decade of impact. For the past 10 years, Tom has served as the emcee at his local Walk, bringing energy, heart and connection.
When asked what his brother might think of his ongoing dedication to Walk to End Alzheimer’s, Tom shared “Mike had a dry sense of humor. He would likely rip me a new one and then hug and kiss me.”
💜 This National Brothers Day, we celebrate Tom and Mike’s story — and all the brothers and families impacted by Alzheimer’s and other dementias. Join Tom by participating in a Walk to End Alzheimer’s near you visit alz.org/walk.
