Gage Oscar Black Memorial Fund

Gage Oscar Black Memorial Fund Gage, a lifelong resident of Delanson, passed away tragically on 8/2/25. A beloved son, boyfriend, and friend, Gage changed the lives of all who knew him.

In his honor, an annual scholarship will be given to an individual entering the automotive field. Gage Oscar Black, 26, a lifelong resident of Delanson, NY, passed away tragically on August 2, 2025. A beloved son and friend, Gage changed the lives of all who knew him. Kind, accepting, and patient, he had a great sense of humor and a love for adventure, traveling the world with his mom. He lived hi

s dream of riding motorcycles, fishing, and spending time with friends. Solving mechanical issues as a Mechanic at Mason’s Auto Service in Rotterdam was the start of his career, and he truly loved his work. Gage’s sudden passing has left his loved ones heartbroken. His giant smile and quick laugh made everyone feel welcome, and friends said they “instantly felt like more than a friend” in his presence. Genuine, kind, and full of life, he “always kept the vibe going good” and “never said a bad thing about anyone.” Loved by so many, Gage changed lives simply through his kindness, and his memory will forever be a light in the hearts he touched. He is survived by his mother Joy (Tetreault) Black, father Steve Black, stepmother Mary Lindner, and his half-sister Heather Black. Also surviving are his maternal aunt Lynn Bundy; first cousins Shannon Bundy, Danielle Bundy, Ericka Redic, Todd Tetreault, and Tamara Jaques; paternal uncles Greg Black (Linda) and Robert Arthur Black; and cousins Paul Black, Sarah Smallwood, and Lauren Black. He was predeceased by maternal grandparents Arlene and Eugene Tetreault; maternal uncle Bruce Tetreault; and paternal grandparents Robert Oscar Black and Louella Mae Black. Visiting hours were Friday, August 15, and Services were Saturday, August 16, at Bond Funeral Home. Gage is buried at the Grove Cemetery in Delanson, NY. Please consider making a donation to the Gage Oscar Black Memorial Fund, which will provide an annual scholarship for an individual pursuing a career in automotive mechanics. Please make checks out to Gage Oscar Memorial Fund and send to PO Box 104, Duanesburg, NY 12056. Service link. https://youtube.com/live/FFfwVvc363w?feature=share

Eulogy read by his mom Joy Black. I want to thank all of you for your love and support. I don’t know how I would function without each one of you as I start my healing journey. I know I’m not alone in my grief, and I hope you, too, are surrounded by love and support as we move forward with our lives without Gage. Gage had so many positive qualities. He was kind and always willing to go the extra mile to help others. One of his coworkers at Hannaford recently shared a story about having car troubles, and Gage didn't just offer advice - he went to her house and helped fix the problem for her and her husband. At home, I noticed Gage did random acts of kindness by taking care of little things without ever being asked. There are so many more stories of his thoughtfulness that can be shared. He loved his family, and especially his sister Heather. They had many fun times together. When Gage was a pr***en, I will never forget watching him teach a younger child how to play badminton while visiting family in Vermont. Gage was so patient and gentle as he helped this small child. It was touching to see. He was also very gentle to our animal family. When Gage would drive his loud motorcycle into the barn to park, it would scare Onyx the pony. One of these times, she ran outside of her stall, and from the house, I could see Gage go out and give her a pat on the neck and a treat to calm her. A dad recently told me that Gage would wait patiently outside in his car for his friend to wake up so they could start the day on some adventure. The dad would offer to wake up Gage’s friend, but Gage would say no, that’s ok & patiently waited. The same dad told me that Gage was the rock of the group of friends, a voice of reason, and the designated driver on nights out. These are just some of the memories that will be forever imprinted in my heart. Gage was smart and observant. One of his high school teachers once told me that he felt Gage was the smartest student in the school. The teachers loved him because he was 100% present during class by participating in thoughtful discussions, and he was always willing to help other students. Gage was not a believer in homework, and I do not think I ever saw him study for a test despite my encouragement. He still passed everything! Gage’s first car was a retired state police car with 180,000 miles on it. We were all concerned about the high miles & how long it would last. He loved that car and took meticulous care of it. He paid off the loan, and when it started to fail, Gage, in one long weekend with the help of friends, especially Dan, put in a new engine, and it’s still going strong. I was so proud of him for his sense of responsibility in maintaining and doing everything for it. Gage had an adventurous spirit, and I was fortunate that he was willing to go on trips with me. We traveled to Europe, the Middle East, and throughout the US. We had some amazing adventures together as mom and son & I will cherish these times. He lucked out by having a dad who likes to travel too, so he got a lot of traveling experiences in his lifetime. I will never forget his trip to Michigan with his friends. He was so excited. He asked me to cosign on a truck rental since they were not 25 yet, and I said “no”, but they found a sister willing to sign (thank you, sister!!), and off they went dirt bike riding for an adventure of their lives. He had so many wonderful experiences with family & friends, as you will see as you watch the slide show. Gage’s passion for motorcycles led him to hundreds of cruising miles ridden with his friends around the state. Between college and 2 part-time jobs at Mason’s and Hannaford Deli, he was working 7 days a week, and by summer, he finally had weekends off. I enjoyed seeing him have a great summer with friends new and old after working so hard. Just about every night, he would go out with his friends to ride, fish, eat out, work out, play games, or cook on the grill at someone’s house. Gage also spent special times with his girlfriend, Morgan, and when I met her, I knew she would be someone important in his life. I’m so glad they had this time together. Gage’s life was really rich and full. He truly embraced the spirit of exploration and valued shared experiences with his loved ones. I am blessed that 3 of Gage’s best friends, since childhood (Chris, Nick, & John), have named me their 2nd mom and have been checking in to see how I’m doing and to help me with anything I need. I cherish their thoughtfulness and love. I want to give a special thanks to James, a newer close friend to Gage, who initiated the candle vigils where there was a tremendous outpouring of support for Gage. Gage and James had many fun times this summer. Gage had so many wonderful friends who shared his loving, compassionate nature. I cherished Gage from day 1 and know from my work as a PA that life can change in a second and it’s important to accept and love one another and live life to the fullest. I am blessed that I worked on myself to be the best mom and person I could be, and we had a good mother-son relationship. His passing is excruciating, but I am blessed knowing he could feel my love and that we had a peaceful time together on this earth. I have no regrets. Someone recently told me that we’re forgotten after three generations, but I believe that we can go on for generations to come by contributing who we are as a person. I know that who Gage was as a person, and how he affected others in such a positive way, will last for generations to come by the collective goodness he brought to the world. Perhaps our message from Gage is to accept and love each other fully and take advantage of every moment. I will close by thanking you again for being here to share in the grief of the loss of Gage. I would welcome any stories you would like to share at this time as we all start our healing journey. There is also a scrapbook where you can write your stories or words in remembrance of Gage.

I have exciting news. HVCC is building a new tech center and they are going to take Gage’s old engine from his beloved C...
01/22/2026

I have exciting news. HVCC is building a new tech center and they are going to take Gage’s old engine from his beloved Charger, fix it up in the engine class in Gage’s honor and display it in the new lobby with a plaque dedicated to Gage. The director also gave me a tour of the current facility and the classrooms where Gage was a student. They all loved him and just about his whole class came to his funeral. They described him as kind patient, a great sense of humor, and helpful. The new building is due to be completed sometime in 2028 and I look forward to seeing his old engine and the plaque. The faculty are also going to give a donation to the Gage Oscar Black Memorial Fund. It was an emotional visit and I am so thankful for their support.

01/11/2026

A friend recently shared this and I find it to be so true. I hope everyone is doing well and the new year brings you peace and good health. Love to you all, Gage's mom. F26

Grief has seasons.
Not the kind you can track on a calendar.
Not winter, spring, summer, fall.
But the seasons of the soul.
There’s the early season—the stormy one—where everything is loud and raw and sharp. Where tears come without warning, and the pain sits on your chest like a weight that won’t move.
Then comes the quiet season. The outside world seems normal, but you feel like a stranger in it. People think you’re okay again. But inside, it’s still gray. Still empty. Still aching.
There’s the angry season, too. The one where you're mad at everything and nothing. Where you snap, retreat, question everything, and silently scream at the unfairness of it all.
And the numb season—when it doesn’t hurt as much, but you also don’t feel much of anything. You float. You function. You wonder if this is healing or just surviving.
And maybe, eventually… the tender season arrives. Not a season without sadness, but one where the memories bring more warmth than sting. Where the love feels alive, even in the absence.
But here’s what they never told us:
These seasons don’t come in order.
They don’t stay for a set time.
They loop.
They repeat.
They collide.
One day you’re okay.
The next, you’re not.
And that’s not failure.
That’s grief.
Grief doesn’t follow the rules.
But it does follow love.
And love, real love, lasts forever.
So, if you’re in a hard season right now, hold on.
Another one will come.
Not easier… just different.
And eventually, you’ll learn to live in the rhythm of them all.
Written by: Aimee Suyko - In Their Footsteps

Happy Holidays everyone and soon to be Happy New Year.  Gage has two wreaths and some beautiful roses at Grove Cemetery....
12/27/2025

Happy Holidays everyone and soon to be Happy New Year. Gage has two wreaths and some beautiful roses at Grove Cemetery. The wreaths share the same stand until the extra stands come in. Thank you to John's family who made a cross wreath and to Morgan for the beautiful roses.
Missing Gage's spirit everyday but thankful for all the wonderful memories and connections with his friends and girlfriend. His spirit lives on in all of us and his kindness has helped make the world a better place by continuing through us left behind. Love & hugs to you all.

12/14/2025
This is a picture from 2017 Gage's graduation day at Duanesburg High School.   I love his smile and friendly nature.  He...
12/14/2025

This is a picture from 2017 Gage's graduation day at Duanesburg High School. I love his smile and friendly nature. He is missed by so many & it is deeply sad he is missing out on continuing his life. He was off to a good start but boy did he live life to its fullest while he was alive which I am so thankful for. His loss is still unimaginable like he is away at college & when my visceral brain connects to my conscious brain, it hits hard with heartache.

It has been wonderful to stay in touch with his friends & girlfriend with game nights, plans to go camping next summer (sites already booked), & going out to eat. They are a terrific group of young adults that I am proud to know and spend time with. I am fixing up his beloved Charger which is on the road and hope to find the right person who loves muscle cars like he did to take it over & care for it like he did.

Unfortunately the headstone has taken longer than anticipated and it will be more like the end of January possibly Spring if the cemetery is closed because of snow. The wooden cross will be up at the accident site by the end of the weekend (12/13-14/25). Everything seems to take longer to get done!!

Hello Everyone, I wanted to update you on the candle vigil site where Gage passed on 395.  With winter and snow coming I...
11/10/2025

Hello Everyone, I wanted to update you on the candle vigil site where Gage passed on 395. With winter and snow coming I didn't want all the candles and memorials to get pushed & broken up by the plows and snow piles so I boxed them all up and will store them for the winter and return them in the Spring. His photo, a pumpkin and some flowers are left up the embankment in the area the cross will be set up. The cross with the plaque will be done soon & will be put up before winter sets in. I hope you are all doing well and have a nice holiday season. I am hanging in there with an emptiness I hope none of you ever have to experience. Live life to its fullest and go for your dreams. Life is too short but for some it can be even shorter. Fortunately, Gage lived an adventurous, full life and had an indelible mark on everyone he knew.

Here is a great picture of Gage when we were at Watkins Glen in 2024. He always had a nice smile and warm eyes.  A beaut...
10/28/2025

Here is a great picture of Gage when we were at Watkins Glen in 2024. He always had a nice smile and warm eyes. A beautiful young man inside and out! ❤️😘

The total in the memorial fund is now $15,260.00.  Thank you to all of you who donated directly to the fund or who parti...
10/24/2025

The total in the memorial fund is now $15,260.00. Thank you to all of you who donated directly to the fund or who participated in the raffle. THANK YOU!! I plan to have a yearly fund drive to keep adding to the fund so it will be around for years to come. Gage's headstone at Grove Cemetery in Delanson, NY is due to be placed around the end of November. A scholarship in Gage's memory will be given to an individual entering the automotive field beginning in 2026.
Gage Oscar Black Memorial Fund
Tax ID: 39-3703671
To donate, please make checks payable to the fund and mail to:
PO Box 104
Duanesburg, NY 12056

Gage with his dog Akita, and Opie our cat.

10/11/2025

Good news, we now have over $10,000 in the Gage Oscar Black Memorial Fund, which offers an annual scholarship for someone entering the automotive field. Thank you all for your support!

09/21/2025

Over the years, I started writing "Joy Quotes" that Gage could one day read and find comfort in when I was gone. This one below, I wrote several years ago, & the irony is that I am reading it after his death and not the other way around, like it was supposed to be. This quote still fits Gage. He had a sense of adventure, found joy in the world, and I don't know if he had self-love (a lifelong process sometimes), but he was off to a great start in discovering himself and creating an adult life filled with people who loved him and enjoyed spending time with him. So many of his friends said that when you first met him, he was more than a friend. His life was way too short, but it was a life well lived & this brings me comfort. Live life fully with your loved ones, life can change in an instant.
The saying below will be engraved on Gage's headstone, which they expect to have finished by the end of November.

Grieve me
but remember
what I want for you is
adventure, self-love, and
joy in the world.

09/21/2025

Good news, we now have $8,660 in the Gage Oscar Black Memorial Fund. Funds will be used to give an annual scholarship to an individual entering the automotive industry. Thank you to all of you who donated to Gage's memorial fund in his honor.

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PO Box 104
Duanesburg, NY
12056

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