Under His Wings Community Center

06/15/2026

What if loving your sibling wasn’t just a challenge…but part of your calling? Being a sibling doesn’t always feel easy — but it is meaningful. Whether your relationship is fun, frustrating, distant, or healing, this 30-day devotional will help you:

Build a stronger connection
Handle conflict with calm and wisdom
Pray for (and even with) your sibling
Grow in patience, forgiveness, and kindness
See your sibling the way God sees them
Become a peacemaker in your home

Each day includes: Key scripture, short devotional, truth points, simple action steps, prayer and space to journal and reflect.

Your sibling relationship is not an accident. God placed you in the same family on purpose — and He can use it to shape your heart, your faith, and your future.

05/29/2026

Looking for a way to help your young people better understand God’s plan for them and their siblings? So very excited to announce that just in time for summer vacation, my 2nd Book in the Loving Your Family Well series will be available shortly on Amazon.

This one is special! You will thank me later.

Includes a daily devotional, key activities and action steps to help your kids connect, journal space, Scripture, and most importantly some fun and love!

Ebook available now in my store at https://stan.store/CynthiaLMillsap

Lots of additional materials available to complement this series. Thanks for the support!

Book One, Connecting With Your Parents is available in the store and on Amazon as well. Check it out!

05/11/2026

The mistake wasn’t what hurt the most.

It was the lying.

Because parents can help you through bad decisions. They can guide you and forgive you. They can walk through consequences with you.

But when lying enters the picture,
trust starts breaking.

And trust takes time to rebuild.

The crazy thing is that most lies happen because of fear.

Fear of consequences.
Fear of disappointment.
Fear of losing approval.

But honesty, even hard honesty, always leads somewhere healthier than deception.

One truthful sentence can start repairing what ten lies destroyed.

Tell the truth.
It hurts less than carrying the weight of a lie.

04/30/2026

This one hurts more than people talk about.

When your sibling doesn’t believe what you believe…

It’s not just disagreement.
It’s personal.

You want them to feel what you’ve felt.
To know the peace you’ve found.
To understand why it matters so much to you.

But instead,

They laugh and make fun.
They ignore you.
They just don’t seem to care.

And if you’re not careful, you’ll try to force what God never asked you to force.

Here’s the truth:

👉 You can’t change their heart.
👉 You can’t argue them into faith.
👉 You can’t pressure them into belief.

But you can do something powerful:
You can live it.

Because your sibling may never open a Bible, go to church or want to hear your stories.

But they are watching:

* How you treat them
* How you respond when you’re frustrated
* How you love when it’s not easy

Your life might be the closest picture of Jesus they ever see.

So don’t preach louder.
Live clearer.

Be patient.
Be kind.
Be consistent.

And trust God to do what only He can do.

Today, don’t try to “convince” them.

Just show them love, peace, and consistency

That’s where change starts. You plant. God grows. 🌱

04/30/2026

04/14/2026

Sibling Wars: From Competition to Connection

Some days it feels like everything turns into a battle.

You ask one simple thing…
and suddenly there’s resistance, attitude, or a full shutdown.

And if you’re honest…
it makes you question yourself.

“Am I being too hard?”
“Am I not doing enough?”
“What am I missing?”

But here’s something most people won’t tell you…

For children who have experienced trauma,
control often feels like safety.

So when they resist…
it’s not always about you.

And it’s not always disobedience.

Sometimes it’s their way of trying to feel okay in a moment that feels overwhelming to them.

That doesn’t make it easy.
But it does change how you see it.

And when you see it differently…
YOU can respond differently and so can your child.

You’re not just correcting your child.
You’re helping them feel safe again.

And that matters more than getting everything right.

And remember, before you correct, connect.

03/29/2026

God Said, “Calm Down! I’m in This Too.”

Conflict starts small, but how we handle it defines us. Take a breath, respond calmly, and choose peace over chaos. One gentle response can change everything. …

03/29/2026

They Don’t Understand Me

Communication is the key to understanding. Parents were teenagers once, too. Let’s open that door with honesty and kindness.

03/29/2026

Is It Fair?

Sharing says: ‘You matter more than this thing.’ Serving says: ‘I choose to show up for you.’ Small choices can change your home’s atmosphere more than you think.