09/10/2026
‼️If you have not read or shared my other post, please take a minute to read and share this one.‼️
I have been hearing more and more stories from across Louisiana about The Remy Hidalgo Law not being followed when it comes to protecting our athletes.
And as Remy’s mom, this hurts in a way that is hard to explain.
Because I know what can happen.
I know what it feels like to send your child to football practice and never get the chance to bring him home.
I know what it feels like to sit in a hospital and pray with everything inside of you that your child will make it.
And I know what it feels like to walk out of that hospital without him.
Remy should be 22 years old today.
Instead, I have his pictures. His memories. His jersey. His number 77.
And a lifetime without my son.
That is why I will never stop talking about heat safety.
Nothing—not a winning record, not a game, not a championship, not one more practice—is worth risking a child’s life.
Coaches, I am asking you to please listen.
If you know conditions are unsafe, they should NOT be practicing.
And if your athletic trainer—who is there for a reason—is telling you it is not safe, LISTEN. These protocols were put in place for a reason. They exist because heat illness can become life-threatening in a matter of minutes.
I have lived every parent’s worst nightmare.
Does losing a child have to be the lesson?
Does my story not tell you that this can happen to ANYONE?
Remy was a son. A brother. A friend. A football player. A kid who went to practice one day and never came home.
I will never stop telling his story because I refuse to let what happened to Remy be in vain.
Listen to your athletic trainers.
Listen when conditions are telling you it is no longer safe.
Your athletic trainer is there for a reason. They are there to help protect these athletes. If they tell you it is unsafe, please listen to them.
There is nothing weak about stopping practice. There is nothing wrong with putting safety before a game.
There is no victory worth losing a child.
These are NOT guidelines, this is a law and exist for a reason.
Because it can happen.
It happened to my son.
Remy wasn’t supposed to become a story. He was supposed to come home from practice.
Parents, please ask questions.
Ask your school what they are doing to protect your child. Ask if they are following the Remy Hidalgo Law. Ask about the heat conditions, the emergency plan, the athletic trainer, the cold-water immersion tub and how quickly your child could be cooled if something went wrong.
And coaches, please remember what is standing in front of you.
Those aren’t just athletes. They are someone’s babies.
Someone’s son.
Someone’s daughter.
Someone’s whole world.
I can’t bring Remy back.
But I can keep telling his story. I can keep fighting. And I can keep asking every person who has the responsibility of protecting these kids to please listen before it’s too late.
Because I would give anything to have one more chance to protect my son.
No mother should ever have to walk out of a hospital without her child.
Please help me make sure another mother never has to.
💜💛🏈 Remy’s legacy has to live on by saving lives.