06/06/2026
“To Kaitlan Collins and every other woman reporter refusing to be silenced: we see you, we support you, and we've got your back.”
CNN reporter Kaitlan Collins hadn't even asked a question yet. She was just standing in the Oval Office on Wednesday, doing her job, when Donald Trump turned mid-sentence to attack her -- for not smiling.
Not smiling. That's what set him off. Since returning to office, Trump has launched gendered attacks on female journalists and commentators at least 20 times -- calling them "piggy," "ugly," "stupid," "nasty," "obnoxious," and "disgrace," among other things. But Collins seems to draw particular fire.
Mid-rant, Trump gestured to her across the Oval Office to call her "corrupt," then added: "Never smiles. A young, beautiful woman. Never smiles. I never see a smile on her face. I see her standing there with hatred in her eyes."
But why does Collins rattle Trump so much that he attacks her before she's even opened her mouth? According to one of Trump's own former aides, the answer is simple: he's afraid of her.
"Kaitlan Collins was the one reporter that scared Kayleigh McEnany and President Trump the most," Sarah Matthews, who served as Trump's deputy press secretary in his first term, said on CNN Wednesday night. "There would be times where Kayleigh McEnany wouldn't even call on Kaitlan Collins at press conferences, at press briefings, because she didn't want to answer the questions, because Kaitlan Collins is a very, very good reporter. And I think that's why you see Trump go after her more ferociously than any other reporter in that room."
This is exactly how small men behave when confronted with someone they fear -- they lash out.
When Collins did finally ask her question -- whether Trump's $1.8 billion Department of Justice slush fund was officially dead or just on hold -- the attacks only escalated. "Be quiet!" he snapped. "You should be ashamed of yourself." He never actually answered the question.
Collins, always the professional, shared a video of the exchange on Instagram, noting matter-of-factly: "President Trump says he still loves the idea of the $1.8 billion fund for his allies and declined to tell us whether it's permanently scrapped."
CNN's Anderson Cooper called out the double standard that night: "That's the president of the United States, a nearly 80-year-old man who has no problem commenting on her physical appearance and telling her she needs to smile. That doesn't happen to men. No one's ever said that to me in an office setting. She was there like every other journalist doing her job, standing around with a bunch of non-smiling men, by the way, all behind her. She gets singled out."
None of this is accidental. It's a calculated pattern. As Elisa Lees Muñoz, executive director of the International Women's Media Foundation, told the Guardian, "President Trump's targeting of women journalists is nothing new. His appearance-based insults are gendered attacks meant to shut women journalists up. While name-calling may seem harmless, coming from the head of our government, it often sets in motion a torrent of abuse towards the journalist, which not only impacts her ability to work, but also sends a chilling message to other women journalists who are confronting him with hard-hitting questions."
But here's what Trump still doesn't understand: intimidation only works if we let it. Collins didn't smile on command. She didn't go quiet when ordered. And neither will the rest of them.
To Kaitlan Collins and every other woman reporter refusing to be silenced: we see you, we support you, and we've got your back.
To help female journalists breaking barriers and refusing to be intimidated in the U.S. and around the world, you can support the critical work of the International Women's Media Foundation (IWMF) at https://www.iwmf.org/
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