05/28/2024
Ashton Greer
If you have been alive for any number of years, you understand that to exist is to live in the tension of pain and joy, hope and disappointment, laughter and tears. Life is beautiful – beautiful and hard. Good people and good friends make those hard times more bearable, and they bring lanterns to us in the darkest of times. They carry hope. They kindle flames. They light up rooms and neighborhoods - and that’s what I am. You are. We are. has been about. The hundreds of people whose stories have been told through this initiative are those same people who bring hope, life, and light to this strong and resilient community.
As for me, during my time as Danville’s Community Relations Administrator, I was simultaneously experiencing the most significant loss of my life, accompanied by deep, intense grief. It is the people in this community who carried me when I could not carry myself. People who held me with compassion, noticed me, checked on me, extended grace, loved my boys, paid my bills, fed me, included me, gave me the benefit of the doubt, filled in for me, helped me move, cleaned my house, just sat with me while I cried… the list goes on and on. At one time a friend purchased a trampoline for my children. Another friend installed security cameras when I felt afraid. Another filled in for me as a public speaker at an event with 5 minutes notice because I could not pull myself together that morning. Another hosted my children for a movie night with pizza and bingo when I was too exhausted to create fun experiences for them. There are so many stories like this that I could tell you. And though this, I came to the realization that there truly is nowhere else I would want to call home through the blows of life. That not only is Danville full of possibilities, but it is also full of wonderful and kind neighbors.
Nearly every I am. You are. We are. interview that I carried out, had me in tears or deeply reflecting about my own life. Hearing the stories of adversity that had been endured, hardships overcome, and wisdom and strength that formed in many where there could have been hostility and resentment, gave me the courage to keep going with a kind heart. These stories have been a huge part of my healing journey. They inspired me to live thoughtfully and to bravely begin to come out of my defensive stance and shift back into openness and unclenched fists. The lives of our good neighbors, local influencers, and change-makers, reminded me that every story has loss, and every story can also have redemption. And that often, the motivation and purpose for living boldly and compassionately, is the empathy, wisdom, and understanding that is born from the most painful of experiences.
I hope these stories have touched your heart in some similar and meaningful way. I hope you have been inspired to live intentionally, with compassion and bravery. I hope that, as I have, you have reflected and aimed to live a life of purpose. I extend my gratitude to every person who was willing to share their story and be a part of I am. You are. We are. May we all be inspired to be the good in Vermilion County.
With Love,
Ashton