06/20/2026
A message for whoever needs it right now:
Acceptance IS the answer to all your problems.
This is a prayer that has helped me a lot.
if you focus on what is wrong- nothing will ever be good enough.
Nothing is ever going to be perfect, it’s not going to be “done”.
Everything we do- there is always going to be something else that needs to be done
Your happiness, your peace, your comfort- needs to come from inside yourself.
And it IS hard. It’s hard for everyone. Because our brains are naturally designed to see the bad. Our brains were not designed to keep us happy- they were designed to keep us safe and alive.
So they are naturally programmed to find things that are “wrong”.
You have to consciously decide to look for the things that bring joy.
There are many things that are not perfect. And it’s totally OK and good to want to improve things.- AND at the same time- you have to accept things the way they are.
I know there are things you want to improve or change- And things take time and everything is never going to be “complete”. There will always be something that could be better.
So- you need to try to find peace with what is.
Try to find 5 things you love about your room. 5 things you love about your life. And try to keep focusing on those things when you start to get overwhelmed with things that feel unacceptable.
Accepting things as they are DOES NOT mean that you never improve or change. It just means that you trust in Gods plan and Gods timing, and you can be at peace with what is while you wait for what is coming.
🙏🏼♥️