Subuki Club

11/19/2021

11/12/2021

This is a master manipulator.
“A person who controls or influences others in a clever or unscrupulous way.”

This is why we must love, accept, and trust ourselves, so that we can stand up to unscrupulous behavior.

When we doubt our feelings, and push them away, and then write a story like, “Oh they didn’t treat me so bad, I must have done something to provoke it” or you use toxic positivity and say,
“I shouldn’t have reacted so negatively” we are giving in to the manipulation and abandoning ourselves.
It’s okay to respond “negatively” there is nothing wrong with you when this happens.

Of course own your response in a situation, but make sure you communicate that the other person MUST own their behavior, otherwise there can be no helpful resolution.
Nothing will change and you deserve to be seen, heard, respected, and loved. 💛

(The only way to win with a manipulator is not to play. Leave their playground.-unknown)

11/10/2021

Remember loves, you don’t have to attend every argument you’re invited to.

Take a pass on little things that will not make any difference in your quality of life.

You never have to waste your time and energy proving yourself.

Choose to show up fully in matters that mean everything to you.

Protect your peace and sanity.💖

(People will call it "Holding grudges." I call it "I saw who you are and I'm not unseeing it."-unknown)

11/02/2021

10/27/2021

Truth be Told Pilipinas!!