07/13/2022
Livfe's Lessons
Do not complain about growing old. It is a privilege denied to many.
-Mark Twain-
I sometimes wonder how many years I have left. When I was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer (MBC) a few months after my 23rd birthday, I hoped I would live to my 30th birthday. I am now 31 and have lived with MBC for 8 years, which is over 25% of my life.
Some think growing old is a punishment and complain about grey hair, wrinkles, and other signs of ageing. Thousands of dollars are spent on anti-ageing wrinkle creams, plastic surgery, and hair dyes to cover up the signs of ageing. Is it because these things are a visible sign of how ephemeral life is?
Those of us living with terminal diseases deal with life’s ephemerality every day. It gives us perspective as to what is really important. Perhaps we value life because we know we could lose it at any time.
I see each day, even difficult days, as a gift. I hope to live long enough to see grey hair and wrinkles.