10/02/2026
“Behind every smile is a story you may never know.”
To our TCG families,
I wanted to open up about something personal and share why our meetings have been delayed over the summer and into this fall.
Many of you know me through the smiles, activities, and time I spend with your children. What I haven’t shared much about is that I also struggle and have been struggling with depression and my mental health. These past few years, some seasons have been much harder than I’ve let people see, and I’m learning to be more open about that.
Over these past few months, I realized I needed to slow down and take a few things off my plate. I needed more room to rest, focus on my mental health, and work toward where I want to be.
I have never forgotten about The Chosen Generation, and I never will. I care deeply about our families and every child who is part of TCG. Even while things have been quieter, that love has remained.
My experiences are part of why teaching our kiddos about mental health and self-care means so much to me. I want them to learn skills I wish I had learned earlier: how to recognize their feelings, care for themselves, and reach out when something feels too heavy to carry alone.
When we talk about difficult topics, including suicidal thoughts, my goal is to approach them in ways that are appropriate for their age and help them understand that they can speak up without shame. I want our kiddos to know they can come to me, even during those difficult moments. I’ll listen, take them seriously, and help them get the support they need.
As I encourage them to care for themselves, I’m learning to practice that same care in my own life. Becoming a father has made me think more deeply about how I spend my time and the person I want to be. I want to show up for my daughter, my TCG kiddos, and my students with patience, energy, and love. Slowing down has been part of making room to grow, heal, and be more present.
Thank you for your patience and for trusting me with your children. Our time together means so much to me, and I look forward to making more memories with our kiddos. I’ll share an update on meetings once we have a set schedule for the rest of 2026!
With love,
MJ❤️
