10/20/2026
October 8th Patuxent Toastmasters Meeting Summary
The October 8th meeting of Patuxent Toastmasters was hosted by Harriet Baayeh, who introduced a thought-provoking theme encouraging us to expand our consciousness and perception: “Different Makes a Difference.” Our Word of the Day was ephemeral, reminding us of the fleeting nature of certain moments and experiences.
Our first speaker of the evening was Chad Welch, who shared a baseball fantasy inspired by his walks along the trails of Columbia. While recognizing that his imagined vision was not reality, Chad expanded his message to explore a deeper point: what we do when no one is watching matters. His speech invited us to reflect on the importance of our private choices and actions, even when no one else is there to see them.
Our second speaker, Ellen Leider, spoke passionately about her upcoming Toastmasters journey. She recognized that knowing what to say and knowing how to say it are two very different skills. Ellen's goal is to discover and develop her own unique speaking style rather than adopt a cookie-cutter approach. Her message highlighted the value of authenticity and the importance of finding a voice that is genuinely our own.
Our final speaker, Matt Hemler, took us on an adventure from his college days abroad in New Zealand. His entertaining story recounted a harrowing night when he found himself locked out of his student housing and resorted to tiptoeing across rooftops in an attempt to reach his room. Matt's tale demonstrated how an unexpected predicament can become a memorable story when shared with an