07/06/2021
NORMAL to RESILIENCE
Greetings to ALL of you. I must confess, I have been like a soldier that's MIA or Missing In Action recently while attempting to help Parents wrestling with the massive challenges associated with where we are as humans on this earth.
The trigger for me has been the constant course or HOPE of "Getting BACK to Normal". Yesterday I heard it from a Parent in the Philippines and another from a Parent in Colorado Springs and yet several others from various locations over the last several weeks.
With the relaxed messages from various authorities regarding masks, social distancing the reopening of public venues, the cautious optimism of various levels of participation is causing some confusion in trying to return to NORMAL, whatever it might be.
I have not been a "good boy" when the conversation jumps to returning to NORMAL. Why, because I don't believe such a focus to be healthy nor an accurate ambition for anyone and certainly NOT Parents.
I have been attempting to change the language along with the mindset. It has been an uphill struggle for me and may have caused some to prefer their quest for the return to "NORMAL" versus the direction I have been prescribing for Parents.
I see us living in the "Eye of a HUGE Storm" of DISRUPTION to our Social and Economic foundations. In my opinion, the Health issue, which has NOT gone away but possibly shifted gears to the delta virus, impacts nearly all of our Social and Economic lifelines.
As such I have maintained my personality of a GEEK and researched and dug for answers to share with Parents as PRESCRIPTIVE as I know-how. The language I have attempted to introduce to Parents has been met with mixed understanding or not accepting because I am NOT the popular source of information.
Last week the Cleveland Federal Reserve Bank hosted a national series of discussions that delved into many of the elements of our changing society from personal and business experts. It was an outstanding multiple-day presentation and I was proud that the organizing entity and host were our own Federal Reserve Bank of Cleveland. I started to seed a couple of the conversations with some of my Parenting talk and to my resistance to any talk regarding returning to NORMAL by boldly interjecting the language of RESILIENCE versus NORMAL.
Yes, my pitch or prescriptive wordsmithing is around the word and mindset of RESILIENCE.
Resilience is the capacity of any individual, household, community, organization of a natural system - to respond to disruptions, to recover from shocks and stresses and learn and grow from the experience. In my world, this is quite natural and normal for any Parent and is possibly in EVERY Parents's job description. It is a REQUIRED skill as a Parent and has worked to society's advantage since the beginning of time.
One of my resources expresses "as you build the resilience you become more able to prevent or mitigate stresses and shocks you can identify and better able to respond to those you can't predict or avoid. You also develop a greater capacity to bounce back from a crisis, learn from it and achieve revitalization." This resource goes on to suggest that as you become more adept at managing disruption and skilled at resilience building, you will be able to create and take advantage of new opportunities in good times and bad. In my world, it is a position or opportunity to manage through TRANSITION.
If you allow yourself to think about where we are with the challenges of today, the challenges are more common than unique because we live in a world that is now and has always been defined by disruption.
I will give you a break and not go into my full dissertation in this email. However, there are three broad areas of disruption we might consider during these times of transition: 1.) Urbanization - the changing dynamics of our cities' urban and metropolitan communities. 2.) Climate Change - Hurricane Elba, Hurricane Sandy and Hurricane Katrina to name a few. 3.) Globalization - the listing of the impact of globalization is exhausting, so I will refrain from listing even a few.
Resilience is the recovery tool to new standards and behaviors in our society.
Again, Parents make adjustments on the spot from the moment they learn they are becoming a Parent and even more so once they become a responsible Parent.