The Purple Sherpa

The Purple Sherpa The Purple Sherpa is a nonprofit organization that supports people caring for a loved one who has Alzheimer's Disease or another form of dementia.
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Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia is a daunting task. There’s no way to prepare for it.
​​Julie Fleming knows. When Julie’s father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia, she became her father’s sole caregiver. With no preparation, guidance or respite, Julie learned by doing. And she figured it out. Julie is one of the lucky ones. Many caregivers don’

t figure it out—and don’t survive their loved one’s disease. It’s a grueling task. The toll is financial, physical and psychological. Julie compares this effort to being taken on an Everest expedition with no tools or preparation. While struggling with the reality of dementia care, the caregiver often hears: “You also need to take care of yourself.” Which is followed by no actual, practical advice, like how to get even 10 minutes to wash your hair, much less take a night off. That’s why Julie founded The Purple Sherpa. We are a non-profit, charitable organization. The Purple Sherpa is dedicated to supporting the caregiver of a loved one going through Alzheimer's or other illness with attendant symptoms of dementia. Sherpas climb as a team and share their knowledge. The Sherpas of Everest are legendary. They climb the mountain. They break a trail. They leave oxygen bottles for those who follow. And The Purple Sherpa is a community of veteran caregivers who have made the climb through dementia care. They’ve broken a trail. Now, they’re sharing their knowledge. And they’re leaving oxygen bottles in the form of useful tips and friendly advice. This is not another resource on how to care for the loved one with Alzheimer’s. There are already plenty of those, and they're important. But as a caregiver, you’ll find there is precious little information for how to care for yourself. While helping a loved one live well, how do you also live well? The Purple Sherpa is here to support you with real-world, been-there, done-that, one-step-at-a-time insight, advice and solace. While you’re on the care partner/caregiver journey, The Purple Sherpa wants to help you live--really live--right now.

​Welcome to the tribe.

Caring for someone who is living with dementia can be so achingly bittersweet.  Reaching out for support can offer a muc...
08/31/2026

Caring for someone who is living with dementia can be so achingly bittersweet. Reaching out for support can offer a much needed break (for both of you).

We in The Purple Sherpa Basecamp understand. Here's a link to our free, closed FB group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ThePurpleSherpaBasecamp

Especially when we're exhausted, having someone else help care for our loved one who is living with dementia can provide...
08/31/2026

Especially when we're exhausted, having someone else help care for our loved one who is living with dementia can provide such a sense of relief. It's amazing how a mental and physical break can do wonders... for both our person and for us.

08/30/2026

This beautiful article, "People Living with Dementia are People with Humanity and Love", gently explores what it can look like to lead with love and dignity when caring for a loved one who is living with dementia.

"People living with dementia are people with humanity and love, as are the rest of us."

Dementia can be so isolating, both for those who are living with it and for those caring for their loved one.  Knowing w...
08/30/2026

Dementia can be so isolating, both for those who are living with it and for those caring for their loved one. Knowing we're not alone can help so much. One safe place caregivers can turn to is The Purple Sherpa Basecamp.

You can find us here:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/ThePurpleSherpaBasecamp

08/30/2026

There is still considerable work that needs to be done to raise public awareness of dementia.

This quote highlights one piece: that with appropriate resources (which, unfortunately, are not universally available), it’s possible to live with dementia and have quality of life for some time. That counters the misperception that diagnosis is equivalent to the late stages of dementia.

It's outrageously painful when someone we love forgets who we are due to dementia. However, in many cases, the person wi...
08/30/2026

It's outrageously painful when someone we love forgets who we are due to dementia. However, in many cases, the person will be aware that we're someone who matters in some way (they may even assign some other role to us -- mother rather than daughter, for example) and may be reassured if you tell them that what matters is you love them.

Watching for patterns around challenging behavior could help with figuring out what next steps might be useful.  This po...
08/29/2026

Watching for patterns around challenging behavior could help with figuring out what next steps might be useful.

This post, "Coping with dementia behaviour changes", written by a UK organization, has some good information on how to care well for a person who is living with dementia.

Read our practical advice on how to deal with behaviour changes in someone with dementia, including where to turn to for help.

Unfortunately, arguing with our loved one who is living with dementia never works.  When we learn to accept their realit...
08/29/2026

Unfortunately, arguing with our loved one who is living with dementia never works. When we learn to accept their reality as true for them, everything flows better.

Pressure and dementia simply do not mix. Trying to hurry someone who's living with dementia creates pressure, and the gr...
08/29/2026

Pressure and dementia simply do not mix.

Trying to hurry someone who's living with dementia creates pressure, and the great likelihood is that things will go downhill quickly. Leave plenty of time to get things done, taking one step (or even a micro-step) at a time.

"As a caregiver faced with caring for a person with Alzheimer’s, we are concerned for our loved one’s safety above all e...
08/28/2026

"As a caregiver faced with caring for a person with Alzheimer’s, we are concerned for our loved one’s safety above all else."

This article provides some helpful ideas on how to create safety without being too restrictive.

As a caregiver faced with caring for a person with Alzheimer’s, we are concerned for our loved one’s safety above all else.

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