08/10/2026
Meet Shanti, a 7 year-old Toyger with a smart, engaging personality and an intense dislike of babies. You know how sometimes we get cases that are easy to judge at a glance but it turns out the owners really did try their best? Shanti is one of those.
Her mom and I have been talking for a couple of weeks, exhausting all remaining options to help her be cool with a human sibling. She’s just not having it and no vet or behaviorist they consulted could find an answer that moved the needle. So, with a heavy heart, they’re hoping our network of seasoned cat-lovers can help find a home where she can feel like herself again.
Because I know you guys: yes, they did contact Shanti’s breeder. She is retired and no longer accepting returns. No, I do not know who it is.
Shanti is staying in her current home in Arlighton, VA until a match is found.
There is a $100 rehoming fee to keep inquiries serious. DM for contact info.
From her family:
Shanti is a beautiful, affectionate, and intelligent cat looking for a calm, loving home where she can thrive. She forms strong bonds with her people, enjoys interactive play, and is delightfully vocal—she loves “talking” with her family and letting you know when she’d like attention. She is active, curious, and happiest when she has plenty of enrichment, playtime, and companionship.
Shanti is in excellent health. She is spayed, up to date on vaccinations, and has received consistent veterinary care throughout her life, including a professional dental cleaning about two years ago. She has a sensitive stomach that is well managed with a prescription diet.
We are making the difficult decision to rehome Shanti because of changes in our household after the arrival of our baby. After my wife became pregnant, Shanti began urinating on baby-related items such as the crib, bassinet, car seat, and toys. We worked closely with our veterinarian and completed extensive testing for urinary tract disease, kidney and liver problems, and bladder stones. All results were normal, and our veterinarian believes this behavior is related to the significant stress and environmental changes rather than a medical condition.
Shanti would do best in a quiet home without dogs or young children. She would be an excellent companion for someone who appreciates an interactive, intelligent cat and can provide daily play, affection, and a predictable routine.
We are committed to finding Shanti the right home—not just the first home. We will gladly provide her veterinary records, discuss her history in detail, and answer any questions. We want to ensure she finds a family where she can feel secure and enjoy many happy years ahead.