03/18/2021
CW: Sexual Assault
“In their report, the Title IX investigators said that a conversation about birth control could be a form of effective consent.” - Anonymous MIT Student
“Effective Consent” is informed; freely and voluntarily given; mutually understandable words or actions which indicate willing participation in mutually agreed upon s*xual activity. This definition is weaponized against survivors by scrutinizing minor details of assaults to accuse them of consenting when they, in fact, did not. But consent isn’t a willingness to participate, it is clear, it is ongoing, and conversations about birth control, or any other conversation, cannot imply clear ongoing consent. This is why we are calling for MIT to change their policy to Affirmative Consent — an informed, affirmative, conscious, voluntary, and mutual agreement to engage in s*xual activity given by words or actions, as long as those words or actions create clear permission regarding willingness to engage in the s*xual activity. This definition recognizes how outrageous it is to stretch details to give perpetrators the benefit of the doubt, when they should have clear permission from others when they engage in s*xual activity.
If you would like to share your experience of s*xual violence at MIT (including assault, harassment, IPV, stalking), you can submit an anonymous testimonial at https://tinyurl.com/SASTestimonial. Or you can email us directly at [email protected]
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