Friends of the Treehouse Co

12/30/2025

We’ve been offline this year due to our displacement post Helene but have been active in our community getting ready for a new season in 2026 serving more individuals. We look forward to sharing more with you all soon. Continually grateful for your support! Happy New Year!

05/10/2025

Posted • Mother’s Day can hold so much.

Gratitude. Grief. Complication. Joy. Silence. All of it can sit at the same table.

This carousel is for the ones feeling the ache behind the advertisements. The ones who are remembering. Longing. Healing. Or just trying to make it through.

Swipe through on or our story for small ways to care for your heart if Mother’s Day feels like… a lot.

12/25/2024

06/16/2024

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Father’s Day is Not Always An Easy Day

I know some of you have lost your fathers. Or, the memories you hold of your dad are not pleasant - in fact they may be very painful. I was born without a dad - my father died two weeks before I was born. My mom remarried when I was two. I never called him my stepdad, only Dad. I certainly knew moments of tenderness from him, and don’t doubt he loved me, but his compass was alcohol and it drove much of my childhood. My younger brothers had a more difficult path than I ... it wasn’t a sweet childhood. My dad died sober - having given up drinking a few years before he died of cancer. He was as proud of this accomplishment as we all were. It was monumental.

I’ve had Christians remind me that at least I have a Parent in Heaven who loves me and is perfect. I get that. But, it doesn’t replace the longing we all have for an earthly parent who is capable of loving us well. As an adult orphan, there is still a pang I feel in my chest about Father’s Day. In contrast to this hollow feeling, I have had the immense joy of watching my husband become a father, build a life for our sons and model what the love of a dad should look like. For that redemption, I’m grateful and I love celebrating him.

Maybe for you this week is one of mixed emotions. Maybe you’ve always wanted to be a father and that seems like an impossible dream. Or you’re grieving the loss of your dad, or are hoping for reconciliation with your dad. Or you’re a dad who has suffered loss. Or maybe you’re a dad filled with regrets. I’m guessing there are many reading this who understand. I do. You are not alone.

05/12/2024

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I remember the earlier years of our marriage — the Mother’s Day Sundays when we would go to church and hear another beautiful sermon about the joys of motherhood. I remember the private tears and the hurtful words as someone would eventually say “when are you going to have a little one?” Not knowing that I longed to say “I am a mom, well, I was going to be ... you just don’t know.” We had miscarried our first child at about 5 months into the pregnancy - the loss was profound for us. We then dealt with infertility, and knowing that becoming a woman that others would recognize as a “Mom” was not guaranteed. We eventually welcomed two wonderful humans into our lives - both hard-fought pregnancies with lots of hospital trips, weekly or — with the second — daily IVs because of hyperemesis gravidarum and threatened miscarriages.

For me personally, there has been no joy like being a mom - unless that’s being an Oma.I hesitate to say “God blessed us with two wonderful kids” because I know for some reading this, that statement rings hollow - does my absence of a child mean I’m not blessed or that I’m forgotten even by my Creator? Today I’m thinking of those women for whom this weekend will be difficult. Those who have buried a child. Those who are dealing with infertility. Those who have been waiting for an adoption to come through or who have had a miscarried adoption. Those who made the courageous decision to allow their birth child to be raised by another family. Those who have already said good-bye to their moms and feel the void. Those who long to be a mom, but this hasn’t yet been your reality and you’re facing a future where this may never happen. Those who have stories I wouldn’t even know to describe. For those of you - the sorority of women who have lost and have a longing - be kind and gentle to yourself this weekend. If you need to, avoid the obligatory Mother’s Day messages this weekend. Do something you enjoy and celebrate the life you have. Grieve if you need to. But, know you are not alone. (reposting as I do each yr)

01/16/2024

The plants and the earth are resting.
Maybe you should too.
The long days will be here soon enough.
Rebecca Raiden

12/29/2023

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12/19/2023

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