06/18/2026
MIXED GIRL FROM WEST VIRGINIA
By Donna Joy
In 2nd grade, you ran from the school bus, so excited! “Mommy, there’s a girl in my class who looks just like me!”
She had brown skin and shiny, black hair, like you. Saddened, I hadn’t known that you noticed that our skin colors or hair colors were different, Or that it mattered, but glad that you found someone who looked like you.
In middle school, you came home crying. “Go back to Mexico Go back to your own country, We don’t want you here. How did you get that Cold sore? What you been suckin on?” Hurting inside. We ought to get Louis to go up there. Wait until they see your 6’7’’ black brother. They will be so scared, they will leave you alone then.
First year of high school, varsity cheer squad, hair down to your waist.
“They said I have to cut my hair, So, all the girls have the same length, So, we look alike for the cheer competition.” Tell them that it is against our religion, that your hair is your connection to the earth, that you only cut your hair for special occasions.
Senior year All the kids got summer jobs, even the lazy kids, But still no calls From now on, you write “Amanda” on the application.
After graduating from WVU You run off to NYC— No need to wonder why.
“Mommy, I went to this event. They asked to take a picture of me with my new outfit on.” Dapper Dan said, “Come to the photo shoot tomorrow.” “No, I told them I wasn’t a model (only 5’2), but they said come anyway. Yes. I wore Gucci. It was so much fun!”
“Mommy, I got this job in the city, as a stylist, for famous people, like movie stars and LeBron James Have you heard of him, Mommy? I told them that I didn’t grow up in the city, and think it will hurt my chances for jobs.”
They said, “Everyone here is from NY. You are unique. You are a mixed girl from West Virginia.”
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