05/04/2026
May is one of the lucky ones.
Meity “May” Hoffman grew up in Hasidic girls’ schools in Brooklyn and Monsey—schools where secular education was limited, and where she was discouraged from pursuing her dreams. When she told her principal she wanted to apply to college, she was screamed at in front of her classmates.
She was stubborn, so she pushed past them, applied, and got into Brooklyn College.
There, she quickly realized how far behind she was. She had never written a research paper. Never given a presentation. Never learned the skills most students take for granted.
She made it through with grit, and with the support from her mother. Today, she’s a college graduate, applying to law school—and working as a community organizer with YAFFED, helping students who were denied an education like she was.
But most students don’t get that support. Even now, her 14-year-old brother is at a yeshiva, struggling with basics many children learn in elementary school.
May’s story is powerful, and she’s speaking out so others aren’t left behind.
Read her op-ed in BK Reader
Op-Ed: Yeshiva education must also give students the tools they need to provide for themselves and their families.