05/01/2026
A message from Michelle Warren, a DFD cofounder: “I turned the calendar this morning to what use to be my favorite month. Warm weather, the boys excitement as they counted down their last days of school, the fireflies beginning to show up and light up the nights and my rose blossoms beginning to bloom in the most amazing colors! So much joy knowing I had 3 months with my boys without schedules, the house would be full of noise-laughter and arguments but I knew that this wasn’t to last as they grew older so I enjoyed every summer with them as much as I could.
May looks different now. My boys are out of the house with full time jobs and doing all the things, as they should. But, those fond memories of May have been replaced. May is painful. It’s a gut wrenching reminder that one of my sons went to Heaven this month. It’s a reminder how that one phone call in May changed our family forever. It will be six years on the 18th and I miss Sage even more as the time has passed.
Grief changes the calendar and rewrites the seasons but life continues. I hold onto the quiet truth that God is still present in both the beauty and the brokenness.
If this month brings pain for you, I pray you feel seen, comforted, and not alone.”
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