09/18/2026
Dear NICU families, you are not alone. 💚 One of our Both Hands families walked their own NICU journey. They wrote this for the family sitting in that room tonight:
“The NICU journey is hard and can feel lonely, and the situation can be magnified if you are out of state like our family was—2500 miles from home. You feel anxious about your new little one, you feel guilty that you have to be so reliant on the medical professionals to help you care for you child’s needs, there is uncertainty of when you will finally be able to go home, you are emotionally and physically exhausted, the blinking lights, alarms, and sounds can constantly fill you with anxiety over your new little one.
It’s the perfect place to be dependent on God as He sanctifies you to become more like Christ, knowing that He knows and carries our burden. As a parent you have no control. You cannot wave a wand and make your baby well so you can go home. So you wait, and you pray, and you wait and pray some more. One day everything is going great, and there’s hope you could maybe go home soon, and the next minute you are deflated as your discharge date gets pushed out yet again. The NICU is an emotional roller coaster that you can allow your own heart and emotions get the better of you, or you can let God be your constant.
Watch for the ways God is working, even in the hardships. God was always so faithful to provide the perfect nurse or therapist, or being able to find joy in all the extra snuggles you get to have with your baby each day that are such a gift.
Lean into one another as a family, and love one another with great patience and understanding. Also, lean into your community. Our friends and family were a huge blessing. From simple tasks like mowing the lawn and caring for our home while we were away, to sending us grocery pickups and covering us up in prayer, we could not have done it alone.
Trust in God’s perfect timing. If He has brought you this far, and chosen this child for you, He will be faithful to carry you through to the end.”
If you know a family in the NICU right now, send this to them. They are not alone. 💚