09/07/2026
9.6.26 Sermon Summary
Rules vs Relationship
Everyone enjoys playing games. Each game has a set of rules to follow so the game will be played fairly and without chaos happening. Rules do not affect whether you win or lose. Kids sometimes make up rules as they play or even break the rules to achieve their goals of winning. When we play by the rules and lose, frustration and disappointment can set in because we don’t get the result we want.
In Colossians 2:16-22, Paul talked about rules and those who place rules and laws on you. Only eat this, and only if prepared certain ways. You must do this during special holidays and festivals. Basically, they tell people what they must do to be holy and acceptable to God.
Others have rules for our spiritual life. You must go to church, pray, read the Bible, sing praises, and fast, among other things. All of those certainly grow you toward God, but why do them and who are they done for? Do you just go through the motions because it’s what you are supposed to do? Do you do these things to make yourself feel better about what you believe God and people expect of you? Or do you do them to honor God?
Rules and laws are made for keeping the peace with fairness for all living together. But they aren’t enough. You can know all of the laws and proper acts of worship, but in and of themselves, they won’t help you with the sin nature we have. Our desire to sin will overpower any law we have. (Watch people on the highways.)
Neither morality nor spirituality comes from following rules. They come from desire and change. Change happens when we are baptized into Christ. A sin-centered heart is removed and transplanted by a Christ-centered heart. One whom the donor chose to give through His life. This change created a relationship with Christ and a changed attitude. We don’t live life because of rules, but because of Christ. We don’t live a moral life because we have to, but because we desire to.
Rules certainly help in spiritual growth, but they won’t fulfill you. Only a relationship with Jesus can. Without a relationship with Christ, there is no future.
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