02/19/2017
Meditate On
When I read this today, all I could think about was the things that happened to Craig and I from people we loved and trusted and even after his death, the horrible things that were said about him...it literally broke my heart...I felt such an anger towards these individuals and bitterness...but as time went on, I knew I had to let go and forgive as the anger I was feeling was hurting me, not anyone else...as I slowly began to forgive, I felt this hatred and deep heaviness of heart to lift..I began to think that for whatever reason some felt this way about my husband, it was between them and the Lord...maybe some of them felt justified in their feelings and who was I to change their minds...people are people, but God is God and in His timing all things work out..so..I forgave and let go..truly letting go means when you hear a persons name, you can smile and only think of the good they did, not the pain they created....
I started thinking of my beautiful children, my grandchildren and all the new people who came into my life and blessed me..not to mention the faithful few who stood by me and walk thru the valley of darkness with me, shedding light upon my path with words of encouragement, love, and faithfulness to me, even when I did things that truly were wrong...
Now, I am engaged to a wonderful, loving caring man...in a few months we will be married. We are joyful, loving, and embracing life together with Christ....
We are going to a new church this morning..seeking our home church in California...we are renovating his home together, laugh a lot and yes, even get frustrated with each other at times....(we both are set in our ways..lol) but we have both learned thru experience, that life is very short, so forgive, move one and celebrate this new beginning we both were given...I feel younger, happier, and peaceful in ways that I haven't experienced in many years...
So yes, I agree with this devotion, and I thank my Jesus everyday that He forgave me and gave me "another" new beginning...
Love and Forgiveness do work....they are powerful tools ..use them and see what God can only do for you...
SHALOM
And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:32
Forgive As God Has Forgiven You
Once, I met a sprightly Christian lady in her seventies who looked a lot younger than she was. Curious, I decided to find out the secret of her youthfulness. As we talked, I learned that she was someone who was easygoingâthis happy-go-blessed lady doesnât take things to heart when offended and is quick to forgive or let go.
She reminds me of an encouragement that God gives us in His Word: Be tenderhearted and forgiving. My friend, God has your best interests at heart when He tells you to forgive and let go. He wants you to be happy and to live a long, healthy life. Nursing a hurt or anger against someone and having unforgiveness in your heart arenât worth losing your joy, peace and health over.
Beloved, if you find it difficult to forgive someone, then look to the cross and see how perfectly God has let go every sin you have and will ever commit. Bring Jesus into your bitter situation. When you know how perfectly He loves you and has forgiven you, youâll be able to forgive that person too. And the more you let go of offences against you, the less the enemy is able to make inroads into your mind, heart and body. Like the lady I mentioned, youâll live a happier, healthier and longer life, with a lot fewer wrinkles and frown lines!