10/07/2025
Even though this predates DFTD, we wanted to share.
The office is humming today, filled with the usual conversations about work, plans, and everyday life. There’s a quiet comfort in that normalcy. Still, my mind has drifted back a few years.
Twenty-four years ago today, the public chapter of Operation Enduring Freedom began. None of us could have imagined how our lives would intertwine with the lives of those serving. A few weeks later, we “adopted” seventeen Marines, determined to support them from afar, and, without realizing it, sent what might have been the world’s worst care packages. 🤣
The only way they could have been worse is if we’d added black licorice and AARP magazines. Between the three-month mail delay and our rookie mistakes, those cookies packed beside Irish Spring soap had plenty of time to “marinate.” 🤣
To this day, I’m grateful for their grace and for their willingness to eat those soapy cookies anyway. We were young, unsure, and learning as we went. I like to think those one-blade razors still gave them the best shave of their lives.🤣
Every year on this date, I call our first “adopted,” Jeffrey. Without fail, he answers with a laugh:
“No, I don’t want anymore Irish Spring cookies.”
It took years before we could laugh about those memories years, shadowed by loss, sadness, and for them survivors guilt. But eventually, we learned to hold both truths: the grief and the laughter, the heaviness and the hope. And I’m deeply grateful we’ve been able to walk through all of it together, especially them and their families. I’m so happy to see them in their second careers with families all thriving in some way.
So today, if you find yourself hesitating to smile, laugh, or let a little light back in because of the weight you carry, whether it be connected to the catalyst that was this day or not , please, pause.
It’s okay to laugh. It’s okay to remember the good and tender moments alongside the hard ones.
Because joy doesn’t erase sorrow, it helps us survive it.
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