06/12/2026
Hi NBLCF family,
As many of you know, I run this foundation almost entirely by myself. For the last six years, I’ve poured my heart into helping dogs, supporting shelters, and trying to make a difference wherever I can. But over the last year, I’ve been carrying a weight that I haven’t fully allowed myself to face. A year ago tomorrow, I lost my mom.
In many ways, I kept moving because that’s what I do. I focused on the dogs, the fundraising, the transports, the events, and helping others. But somewhere along the way, I forgot to give myself permission to grieve. I convinced myself that staying busy was enough. It wasn’t.
Between the loss of my mom, the daily heartbreak that comes with rescue work, the constant feeling that I should be doing more, and the criticism that so often comes from people who don’t see what happens behind the scenes, I’ve realized that I’m running on empty. I have answered messages on my birthday, holidays, and even in the middle of the night. The truth is, I’m tired. Really tired.
Not tired of the dogs. Not tired of this mission. Just tired in a way that comes from carrying too much for too long and doing this primarily by myself.
So for the first time in my life, I’m choosing to put myself first.
Effective today, NBLCF (Val) will be taking a break until July 1, during this time, I will not be checking messages, responding to requests, or posting unless something has already been scheduled.
This isn’t goodbye. It’s not the end of anything. It’s simply a pause so I can take care of myself the way I’ve spent years encouraging others to do.
To everyone who has supported us, donated, volunteered, shared our posts, adopted our dogs, or simply cheered us on from the sideline, thank you. You have helped make this journey possible, and I am so grateful.
When I return we will have plenty of wonderful things to look forward to, including our $500 Shelter Wishlist Giveaway starting July 1, opportunity drawings, another auction in July, and our very first bus trip in August
For now, I need a little time to heal, to breathe, and be kind to myself.
With love,
Val
