Infant loss support group in honor of Zaydyn.

02/04/2023

“I cannot think of anyone stronger than a mother who has lost her child and still breathes.”
Long Live Zaydyn.🦋 •333•

12/20/2022

A PARENTS WORST NIGHTMARE ........

Losing a child and having to bury them. A man lost his son and couldn’t bare the thought of living without him. He was suffering and couldn’t believe his son was gone. He cried and cried every day and night, missing his son, wishing things were different.
He couldn’t sleep and hadn’t slept in a long time. One night an old medicine man came to him in a dream and told him “Enough!! That’s enough crying!!” The dad told him “I cannot stop, I am never going to see him again!” The old Medicine man said, “Do you want to see him again?” The dad says “yes of course” the old medicine man takes him to the entrance of happy hunting ground where he sees many little beautiful children, so happy and innocent, carrying eagle feathers into the happy hunting grounds, smiling and laughing and just so beautiful. The dad asks “where is my son? Who are these kids?” The old medicine man said “these are the children that are called home early, they are innocent and loved and they go right through to the happy hunting grounds, so happy” the dad says “and my son? Where is he? Why isn’t he with these children?” The old medicine man said, “come this way” and guided him to the side of entrance. A small boy with a beautiful smile was standing there watching all the children enter the happy hunting grounds. He was standing there within reach of an eagle's feather. His dad grabbed him and hugged him, and the boy kissed his dads' cheeks and told him he missed him. The dad said “why don't you have a eagles feather like the other kids? Why are you waiting here at the entrance?”
The boy said “I keep trying to get the eagle feather Daddy, but your tears pull it out of reach. I see you are so sad, and I am tied to that feeling so I wait here until you’re ok” the dad burst out crying for the last time, he told his son, “Get that eagle feather and go, I will be ok, and I know you will be too”
- Don't cry too long for that loved one you lost, whether son, daughter, husband, mother or father!! Let them rest in peace, don't torment your life, because they won't come back, have faith that you will be together again, and that Creator makes us a beautiful home with all our loved ones when we leave this world.

11/21/2022

10/27/2022

My little baby was named Zaydyn. This poem hurts my heart a lot. Take a moment to read the words of the poem.💙
As the little boy approached the gate, St Peter held it wide open. The little prince scampered through, then stood and looked around inside.
St Peter smiled and took his hand and asked “What is your name?” “Zaydyn” Said the little boy, then asked the saint the same.
“Oh I’m St Peter”, smiled the man, I’m the keeper of the gate, we’ve been waiting for you. I’m glad you weren’t late.”
Little Zaydyn grinned and said “I’d come up here to stay, but mom and dad will feel real bad, that I have gone away.”
“Now don’t you fret, the kind man said; your parents have been blessed, they have given someone dear to be God’s special guest.”
“I’d like to see the man in charge, unless it’s too much trouble?” “Oh no, the kindly man replied, He’ll be here on the double.”
Little Zaydyn knelt right down and said a little prayer. When he looked up a man in white was standing there.
He smiled at Him, and walked up close and whispered in his ear, “are you quite sure my mom and dad know I am here?”
“Of course they do,“ the man replied, and gave a little nod, “let me reassure you son, I know because I’m God.”
Little Zaydyn, scratched his tiny head, and tugged his tiny ear, “I’d sure feel a lot better Lord, if mom and dad were here.”
The man in white look down at him, “you run along and play, I have your parents place reserved, for when they come to stay.”
Little Zaydyn seemed relieved; he didn’t have to worry. He smiled up at the man in white and said,
“Please have them hurry.”

10/07/2022

Unfortunately, we weren’t able to bring our precious miracles home.
I, personally, felt empty and alone. I felt hopeless and lost. I’m stuck in a dark tunnel, hoping to find the light…
5 months.💙👼

09/28/2022

DON'T DIE WITH YOUR DEAD.

Did you know that when you cry for your dead, you cry for you and not them?

You cry because you “lost them”, because you don’t HAVE THEM by your side. You think it all ends in death. And you think they are NOT anymore.

So if you’re dead no more, where are they?.

Yes they have left, or they are now somewhere else, is that place better than this?.

Yes, definitely that place is better than this; so Why do you suffer for their departure?.

When you have finished accepting that they are no longer "NOT here", but they are still in another place even better than this, for there where they are no longer sick, or suffering.

Then you'll stop mourning them and you'll get them back in memory so they keep accompanying you with the joy of all that you've lived.

If you truly loved them LOVE them AGAIN and this time with greater strength, with greater purity, with greater delivery.

Today, there will be no more reproach of any kind.

Only LOVE, will be the essence between you, between us, between them.

I respect your pain, and the way you express it. I know you cry and you will cry without comfort.

But .. Today I say to you:
Don't die with your dead.

Remember we are only seeing one side of the coin (death).

We are not looking the other way; we are not seeing the wonderful place of light where they stand.

What if we start seeing “death” as a Second Birth?

Second Birth we ALL will go through.

Don't die with your dead, honor them by living your life as they Ed would have wanted you to. , let them transcend. And you keep living.
🙏💚🕉