Carquinez Village

Carquinez Village Connecting, Supporting, and Inspiring Older Adults in the cities of Benicia and Vallejo, California. A community of volunteers is at the heart of the Village.

Carquinez Village provides services and social connection to members who are 60+ years old living in Benicia and Vallejo, California. The mission of Carquinez Village is to build a community that provides social support, practical help, and referral assistance to older adults who want to remain in their homes as they age. They provide a set of everyday support services that meet different interest

s and needs and a circle of caring in times of need. All of our volunteers are vetted, insured and cleared through a thorough background check. We offer an array of social, educational, and cultural programs that change throughout the year to connect and inspire our Village community. Our monthly calendar of events includes a variety of engaging and entertaining activities such as game nights, private concerts, potlucks, picnics, weekly walks, coffee gatherings, trips to museums, music, art, culture and educational speakers; most of which are free of charge and exclusive to Carquinez Village members! Our members are part of a caring, dynamic, and engaged community of older adults. They have peace of mind in knowing that they have selected a low-cost strategy (about $1 a day) that saves money, reduces isolation, and increases peace of mind. For more information on becoming a member or volunteer of Carquinez Village, visit our website: CarquinezVillage.org, or email us at [email protected].

We’re taking a moment to honor the dedication that makes our Village shine. Our office will be closed on Labor Day.Enjoy...
09/07/2026

We’re taking a moment to honor the dedication that makes our Village shine. Our office will be closed on Labor Day.
Enjoy a fun, safe, and happy holiday!

Voice of the Village.Advanced Planning for Your PetsBy Diane Choquette        My two cats are a great comfort to me. Sin...
09/04/2026

Voice of the Village.
Advanced Planning for Your Pets
By Diane Choquette

My two cats are a great comfort to me. Since I live alone, they provide companionship, and it’s a pleasure to care for them. Ziggy is eight, and Callisto is twelve, and at my age, I don’t know how many more years I will be able to care for them. One or both could outlive me, and I want to do what I can to avoid them ending up in an animal shelter if I am incapacitated or die. Both cats have special diet needs, and Ziggy requires medication.

I have completed other end-of-life planning tasks, and now it’s time to plan for my cats. Over lunch recently, my friend Molly and I discussed her plans for her cats. They provide a useful model, so I’m taking her lead.

Molly used to breed Persian cats and still has a few. On the inside of her front door, she has posted a sheet of paper with pictures of the cats labeled with their names. Listed on the sheet are the names and phone numbers of a few people willing to provide immediate care for her cats. Those people also know the location of a notebook Molly has prepared with information about each cat’s diet, medications, veterinarian, and where the litter boxes and supplies are. I plan to create the same documents and post them on my refrigerator near my File of Life, which contains medical information about me useful to EMTs. If I am found unconscious or dead, EMTs in Benicia are trained to look at the refrigerator door for a File of Life. (The File of Life can be obtained from the Benicia Fire Department. I don’t know if the Vallejo Fire Department also uses it.)

To ensure that the person who takes immediate care of her cats has money, Molly has put aside cash, along with her important documents, in a fire and water resistant Roloway bag. Finally, in her will she has designated the Cat House on the Kings, a cat sanctuary, as a beneficiary to receive a donation, even though they may not be willing to take her cats. If a cat was adopted from Cat House, it can be surrendered to them. Other cats and dogs are considered individually. The current charge for taking a surrendered cat is $5,000.

The Cat House on the Kings, in Parlier, southeast of Fresno, claims to be California's largest “no-cage, no-kill, lifetime cat sanctuary and adoption center.” They place rescued cats and kittens into loving, permanent homes. They aim to provide a safe, happy, and healthy home for unwanted cats and kittens in a facility without cages. Additionally, Cat House spays and neuters cats to prevent overpopulation. You can read about them on their website, cathouseonthekings.com, and view videos on YouTube.

On their 12-acre property, Cat House has homes for senior and special needs cats. In addition to cats and kittens, they do take in puppies and dogs, though it appears their primary residents are cats. In addition to offering animals for adoption, Cat House solicits people to foster animals and to sponsor animals that are not likely to be adopted due to age or medical needs. In information for the executor of my trust and will, I plan to include information about Cat House as a possible final home for my cats.

Since I don’t want the cost of the care of my cats to be a burden on anyone, and fees may be involved in rehoming, I’m thinking about designating funds in my will for their care. I could also set up a trust for them, but at this point, I don’t have a caretaker to designate. Both the ASPCA (aspca.org) and AARP (aarp.org) have information on their websites about setting up a trust for your pets.

A trust can, for example, specify the particular foods your cat prefers and how often you want your pet to visit the veterinarian. A trust can take effect during your life, providing instructions for the care of your pets in the event you become incapacitated. You know your pet better than anyone else, so describing your pet’s habits should be included in the instructions. According to the ASPCA website, “unless the trust instrument provides otherwise, the trust terminates upon the death of the animal, or upon the death of the last surviving animal covered by the trust.” It’s important to designate a remainder beneficiary for any funds remaining in the trust.

Voice of the VillageThe Wheels on the Bus                      by Cathy BennettImagine soft curls, wiggles and giggles b...
08/31/2026

Voice of the Village
The Wheels on the Bus
by Cathy Bennett

Imagine soft curls, wiggles and giggles barely contained as darling, dimpled children form a circle around you in a classroom. It’s 1982, and this is my first job out of college as a substitute teacher. I LOVE this job! Today is Friday and this is Kindergarten. “Itsy Bitsy Spider” was a big hit, and I am delighted I’ve been asked to return on Monday.

Driving home I reflect on the innocence and effusive joy in that classroom, and smile to myself. Back at my cottage behind the main house, I don’t even realize that I’m singing “The Wheels on the Bus Go Round and Round” while cooking dinner. After watching reruns of “Laugh-In” and “Johnny Carson”, I’m ready to settle into bed for the night.

The air is still as I unwind and drift off to sleep. Somewhere in the backdrop is the faint echo of “The Wheels on the Bus” in a dreamy adventure. In my happy little bus, I’m wandering through soft colors and sweet sounds as I slip into a comfortable slumber.

Sometime in the night, I hear a loud “RING! RING!” My eyes open wide and I force myself to sit up. I look over at the phone on my nightstand. Silence. I focus on it for a moment to make sure that I am fully awake and have my senses about me. Still silent. “That was weird!” I think to myself with a shake of my head.
I laid back down to resume my sleep.

Later, “RING! RING!” Again, my eyes fly open and I shoot upright in bed. I stare at the phone, motionless and silent. Is it staring back at me? “What the hell ?!”
A few minutes pass before I decide this is just a strange dream, and I fluff my pillows and lie back down. A little unnerved, it’s a while before I close my eyes.

Later again, “RING! RING!” This time I am instantly upright and staring at the phone. I am wide awake, and unlike before, I can actually hear the phone ringing. I reach for the handle with fumbling hands. “Hello?” I whisper.

“Cathy, are you all-right?”

“Mom? Is that you? Where are you?!!” (Mom had been missing for 2 years.)

“It doesn’t matter. Something is wrong! I need you to get up and check the door.
Is it locked? Go on, check now! PLEASE!!”

My heart was racing but I managed to set down the phone, stumble out of bed, turn on the light and go to the front door. It was locked and secure. I hurriedly returned to the phone. “Mom. It’s OK. I’m safe.”

Silence. “Mom? Are you there?”
No response. “Mom!!!”

My mouth was open but I couldn’t catch my breath. My mind was trying to process what had just happened. I needed to walk around. I moved slowly through each room of the tiny cottage and turned on all the lights. I tried to calm myself by breathing slowly, and coaching myself to remain calm.

There was no way I could go back to bed, so I wrapped myself in a thick blanket and sat on the sofa watching the door. The lights were still on. After a while I must have drifted off, tumbling through a fitful sleep. At some point I heard a soft click and envisioned the door k**b turn slightly. I immediately opened my eyes and stared at the door k**b. It was motionless. I turned on the TV, volume up, and tucked further into the blanket. Sleep was beyond me now.

I remained there on the sofa until the morning light. I cautiously rose still wrapped in the blanket, and re-visited each room of the cottage. I walked to the phone and lifted the receiver. Dial tone.

I managed to dress and wait for a decent hour to call a friend and ask her to meet me for coffee. Thank God this was Saturday and I had no place I was required to be. I was a wreck and needed someone to talk to.

Leaving the cottage, I locked the front door and out of curiosity, decided to walk around, circling its perimeter. Strangely, the well-tended flowerbed beneath my bedroom window appeared trampled, and the window screen had been lifted from the window frame, and was now dangling precariously, barely clinging to the exterior wall.

A rush of air escaped my mouth, “Holy Sh_t!!”

The wheels on the bus came to a screeching halt.
Coffee turned into Bloody Mary’s.
And a bad dream turned into a mother’s warning.

EPILOGE

This is a true story. At the time of this incident my mother had been swept up by a religious cult that forbid her contact with anyone on the outside. Several weeks after this night, she escaped the cult by convincing them that I belonged with the cult, and so they gave her a round-trip ticket to Pleasant Hill, CA, with a one-way ticket (for me) back to Arizona. Then one day my Mother showed up at my doorstep unannounced in a sundress and Birkenstocks without a suitcase. She had been directed to retrieve me and return immediately.

Yes, I was surprised! But my mother had calculated her escape. She wanted out, and only now could her family help her recover, which she slowly did, and successfully rebuild her life. I will always be proud of her for finding the strength to extract herself from that mess. And for anyone else who finds themself in a similar situation, I applaud you for taking that important first step.

Years later, my mother and I talked about the night of this dream. She told me that she had been having a similar dream, and was trying to reach out to me, but couldn’t. Except that in her dream, there was a telephone operator asking her if she needed help making the call.

Voice of the VillageAn Odysseyby Judy FurlongWith all the hoopla around the opening of “The Odyssey,” I had the motivati...
08/26/2026

Voice of the Village
An Odyssey
by Judy Furlong

With all the hoopla around the opening of “The Odyssey,” I had the motivation to revisit my favorite poem, “Ulysses,” by Lord Tennyson. I have loved this poem for 50 years, and now find myself relating to its content even more strongly. I strongly urge everyone to look it up and read it in its entirety.

The poem finds Ulysses, now well along in years, looking at his life through the prism of his past, all the adventures, the people met along the way, the sense of frustration at being sidelined and left with nothing to do but “Mete unequal laws unto a savage race, That hoard, and sleep, and feed, and know not me.”

He was a true hero, a man whose fame has remained even to this day and age. He yearns for movement, challenge, but seems to accept his fate; to be sedentary and able to see his son succeeding him with nothing on his schedule for the present. How often do we think of our past, more active days? How often do we yearn for the times when we could just pack it up and take off? I know I do!

Yet, so many of us do just as our hero does; we set out to seek and find, to grow into an older age, full of enthusiasm and purpose. Our bodies might groan sometimes; I know mine does, but off we go, either physically or intellectually.
It has paid off for me. In the past five years, I have had some new adventures and revisited some old ones. Three trips to Poland (a brand, new destination) following my daughter as she pulled and pushed me around Europe! Visiting my old haunt on the reservation, seeing the changes and celebrating my contributions there. Like our hero, not happy with just sitting around.

Here are some verses from “Ulysses.” Please read them and ask yourself, “Am I here? Am I like this man who refuses to give up, who intends “To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.” I am here, I tell myself; I am alive and I am ready!

Ulysses
It little profits that an idle king,
By this still hearth, among these barren crags,
Matched with an agèd wife, I mete and dole
Unequal laws unto a savage race,
That hoard, and sleep, and feed, and know not me.
I cannot rest from travel; I will drink
life to the lees: All times I have enjoyed
Greatly, have suffered greatly, both with those
That loved me, and alone on shore, and when
Through scudding drifts the rainy Hyades
Vexed the dim sea:

I am become a name;
For always roaming with a hungry heart;
Much have I seen and known
I am part of all that I have met…
How dull it is to pause, to make an end,
To rust unburnished, not to shine in use!

There lies the port: the vessel puffs her sail:
There gloom the dark broad seas. Free hearts, free foreheads – you and I are old…
Old age hath yet his honour and his toil;
'Tis not too late to seek a newer world.
Push off, and sitting well in order smite
the sounding furrows; for my purpose holds
To sail beyond the sunset, and the baths
Of all the western stars, until I die…

Though much is taken, much abides; and though
We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven; that which we are, we are;
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.

Judy Furlong
Carquinez Village

Voice of the villageRoad Tripby Cathy BennettI recently took a solo road trip up north to see the Giant Redwoods. Travel...
08/21/2026

Voice of the village
Road Trip
by Cathy Bennett

I recently took a solo road trip up north to see the Giant Redwoods. Traveling alone is a learned skill, with both benefits and disadvantages. Being in control of the journey is a definite plus. Listening to a podcast, music, or an audiobook is a great companion on a long drive. Not having someone to share the moments with is a drawback, but if you don’t mind talking out loud to yourself, you hardly notice. Besides, I’m a good listener. Not everyone is.

The trip was a good one, and the redwoods did not disappoint. I visited the “Trees of Mystery,” complete with a gondola ride through the redwood forest, and a netted suspended canopy walk that spanned the redwood grove, hovering 100 feet above the forest floor. The suspended canopy walks were a bit unnerving, especially when a few unruly kids came running up behind me, making the netted bridge bounce and sway wildly. I used my “Momma Bear” voice to get them to stand still and wait for me to exit to the next platform. Momma Bear is a universal language that all children understand. It comes in handy.

The trails and hikes were glorious. One led me through a damp tangle of ferns and moss-covered giant redwood trees, straight out into the sunlit ocean. It was magnificent!

On my way home, I drove south on 101 almost the entire way. Passing a roadside campground, I came upon a huge herd of wild elk. There must have been over a hundred of them, including several males with enormous antlers. They were rummaging through a campground parking lot.

Further south I stopped in the small historic town of Ferndale, a hidden gem of charming Victorian architecture. I had been to Ferndale back in 1994 right after a 7.0 earthquake destroyed much of the downtown and many homes. I was part of a Mental Health Response team sent there from Contra Costa County to help the community cope post-disaster. It was wonderful to return to this beautiful historic town some 32 years later to find it fully restored to its Victorian glory.

I marveled as I passed miles of rolling hills with fields of beige dotted with scrub oak trees. The dry grasses swaying gently in the breeze gave the impression one could roll down the hills in soft blanketed comfort. Of course, if you did so, you’d be covered in stickers and bruised by rocks and clumps of dirt! I smiled to myself, amused by such silly thoughts, as the landscape whisked past me.

At a certain point I noticed a change in the air, and wondered if the sky was darkening. Within moments the change became more dramatic, and soon the sky had turned a pale orange. Wisps of something floated in the air as I drove through it. As my car passed a huge mountain, I looked up. That’s when I saw it. The sky above me was blotted out by a massive cloud of grey, purple, orange, and black circling over me. It was so enormous that it demanded my attention. I was driving toward the town of Hopland and, directly in front of me, the entire mountain was on fire. If you have never seen a wildfire, especially one so large, it is absolutely terrifying.

I, along with several other travelers on 101, pulled to the side of the road and stepped out of our cars. Looking up in frozen silence, I imagined wildlife running in full panic, desperate to find an escape from the flames that surrounded them. I could hear the popping sound of fire as it burned through the trees. I saw the bright red flames as they crested the mountain, consuming everything in their path. The enormous cloud of smoke that rolled and rotated across the sky was like a creature slowly turning to stretch its way out of a deep slumber. This amazing cloud formation before me might have been a marvel, had it not represented something so dangerous and out of control.

Emergency vehicles were flying past us heading towards the fire. Flashing lights and blaring sirens came from all directions. It felt other worldly. Tears welled up in my eyes, and I wanted to cry. I wondered who and what might be in this fire’s path. Were there people fearing for their lives, frantically choosing what to grab as they scrambled to get to their cars to evacuate?

Suddenly I realized that I’d better get out of there before the 101 was shut down, which, shortly thereafter, it was. For many miles I saw a steady stream of emergency vehicles and firetrucks from neighboring cities pass me on their way to the fire. I thought about those firefighters. I thought about their families who live with the anxiety of wondering if their loved ones will return home on any given day. By now, I was crying. In that moment I wished there was someone beside me who could understand everything I was feeling.

When I arrived home later that night, I knelt to hug my dogs, who rushed to greet me. Oblivious to how much their warm breath in my face meant to me, they were just happy to have me back home. Watching the news on TV, I learned this was the Feliz fire, and it had started about 30 minutes before I came upon it. I closed my eyes and breathed in humble gratitude.
Wow.
What a road trip!

We did it!Thank you, Benicia! We are honored to be voted 1st Place in 2026 for the second year in a row in Best Senior C...
08/18/2026

We did it!

Thank you, Benicia!

We are honored to be voted 1st Place in 2026 for the second year in a row in Best Senior Care Services, and for the first time, 1st Place in Best Social Support Organization. Your support means everything to us.

Carquinez Village is proof that love and caring can be organized, shared, and multiplied. Every act of service helps older adults stay connected, independent, and valued; together, we’re building a stronger, kinder community where aging is celebrated, and no one faces it alone.

Thank you for believing in our mission.

Voice of the VillageTo Be, or Not to Be…a Police Officerby Cathy BennettHave you ever wondered what it would be like to ...
08/16/2026

Voice of the Village
To Be, or Not to Be…a Police Officer
by Cathy Bennett

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a police officer? The thought never really occurred to me until I found myself attending the Benicia Police Department Citizen’s Academy. I had heard about the Citizen’s Academy when I
attended a National Night Out neighborhood watch party. NNO happens across the nation’s communities once a year. It’s a block party attended by local
Police, Fire, Probation, and Sheriff’s Department staff, as well as local community leaders, (mayor, city manager, city council members, county supervisors, etc.).
There is food and activities for the kids, who love climbing into the firetrucks and police cars and taking photos with the department mascots. During this event, a couple of police officers told me about the Citizen’s Academy. I had just retired, and it piqued my curiosity, so I signed up.

I was pleasantly surprised to find it not only informative and interesting, but conveniently held at the police department, and taught by our very own Benicia police officers and department specialists. It was an up-front and hands on experience of all aspects of police work. The officers were personable and eager to share not only their expertise, but information that illuminates what is involved in police work.

I don’t know why I was so surprised. I mean, after all, they are people just like you and me. But somehow that uniform and those black and white vehicles sometimes felt like a wall that separated “us” from “them.” Suddenly, that wall didn’t exist, and I found myself drawn into this tight-knit community of service-driven professionals.

I won’t spoil the details of the Citizen’s Academy. You should definitely sign up and discover it for yourself. What I do want to share is how this experience influenced my desire to learn more about policework, and how impressed I have become by what it means to be a sworn officer.

Imagine wearing a uniform and driving that black and white vehicle bearing the full responsibility to keep the community at large peaceful, safe and free from harm. You get to see the absolute best of humanity (like good Samaritans, and other kind hearted folks), and you also get to see people on the worst day of their life. Some people who you encounter instantly dislike you simply because of your uniform. Others are wary, but curious. Some seek you out as a “helper.” And some, usually children, are awe struck and stare in frozen admiration.

Police work involves long, 12-hour shifts, is often intense, sometimes grueling and, occasionally, relatively uneventful. The tricky thing is that one never knows from one minute to the next what you might face. An officer could be attempting to mediate between bickering neighbors, or issuing a citation to someone using very poor judgement. And without warning an encounter can turn explosively dangerous. On a routine shift an officer might find themselves as the first responder to a tragic su***de, a horrible accident, or a heinous display of domestic violence. They might witness heartbreaking acts of cruel abuse upon innocent victims, or be called to comfort someone else who has. An officer sees the best and the worst of humanity, and through it all, must maintain theirs.

I’ve often wondered how police officers manage the stress that comes with the job. It clearly has an impact upon one’s mental and emotional health. How can
it not? In the not-so-distant past, it might have been considered a “weakness” to seek out resources to help with the accumulation of stress, or the very real symptoms of PTSD. Thank goodness, police, firefighter, and military agencies have evolved to recognize the need for better supportive resources for those who serve.

All this said, whenever I’ve heard officers describe their job, they often state it as “incredibly rewarding,” and “a pleasure to serve the community.” For this, I am always impressed and will be forever grateful.

To be, or not to be…a police officer. That is the question. I suppose it depends on what you are made of.

Voice of the VillageHands by Barbara FethPublished August 14, 2026My hands are interesting.  As a young girl, I noticed ...
08/14/2026

Voice of the Village
Hands
by Barbara Feth
Published August 14, 2026

My hands are interesting. As a young girl, I noticed my oddly crooked fingers, and I have drawn and painted my hands throughout my life. The strange ability to “lay on hands” helped me in my career as a physical therapist. Most of all, I like to work with my hands, knitting and sewing and using knives and chopsticks throughout my childhood. As a young adult I started painting and banging away on a set of bongos. Gardening is another passion, clipping, digging, raking…I love it all.
I got my crooked fingers from my mother, but from my father, I got arthritis. I added some serious injuries that left me with some weakness and decreased sensation in my fingertips. To make matters worse, I get lost in a task and become a victim of overuse. So here I am. My thumbs ache, and my 3rd and 4th fingers on both sides get stuck in a painful “trigger” position that I have to pull and pry on to get loose.

My trigger fingers are most bothersome at work when I am assisting patients. I have to protect the patient, and I forget to protect my joints, so there I am, prying my fingers out behind my back, often using available surfaces to help. Oy.
But I have made a few adaptations. I use many cooking tools to make life easier; my food processor, my dishwasher, and my juicer are dear friends. I let my electric mixer knead my bread, and she does a great job! My painting has turned into drawing, and I’m learning to use materials like watercolor crayons and soft pencils that are easier to control.

Wood carving began in Girl Scout camp, where in spite of cutting myself (and hiding my injuries), I carried my pocketknife with me everywhere. I continued carrying a utility knife in my purse well into adulthood. My father-in-law was a serious woodcarver, so I inherited his knives and wood cutouts. I bought sanding tools and oils and have spent many hours making little dogs, ducks, and such. Somehow, when I moved 12 years ago, I lost all of my woodworking equipment.
This year I bought my eldest granddaughter a pocket knife, and one day she called and asked me how to whittle a stick. My advice was to have a sharp knife and always whittle away from you. Well, that got me going. I found a few Boy Scout pocket knives that belonged to my husband, and found some sticks outdoors, and I found I could still whittle! I searched and searched and finally found all my woodcarving stuff in a big plastic box in my garden shed.

Now on Sunday afternoons I whittle away in my backyard with other seniors. I am the youngest and the only member under 80. Our eldest member will be 90 in a few months. We have sharp knives, we wear gloves, and some of us even drink b**r. At last count, we each still sport 10 fingers, but who knows what our future will bring?

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